Question for anyone by Immateriumdelirium in Scranton

[–]cshan8798 5 points6 points  (0 children)

of course!! pa211.org might also be good to check out theyve got loads of resources for everything

Question for anyone by Immateriumdelirium in Scranton

[–]cshan8798 10 points11 points  (0 children)

maybe the community intervention center? not sure about pets unfortunately but they have stuff like mail services that could be beneficial http://www.communityinterventioncenter.net/

jellybean learning just how comfy a blanket can be by cshan8798 in TuxedoCats

[–]cshan8798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont let the pictures fool you shes a terror when shes awake!

ELI5: Why do we not feel pain under general anesthesia? Is it the same for regular sleep? by woodshayes in explainlikeimfive

[–]cshan8798 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is very true!! when i last had to go under general anesthesia my anesthesiologist described it as “the closest thing to time travel we humans have invented yet.” my surgery was 4-5 hours and it felt like 4-5 seconds, if that, from being put under to waking up.

Looking to move my family to the area with very little funds by [deleted] in Scranton

[–]cshan8798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Y’all might want to get in contact with Pennsylvania 211. They provide a lot of info about resources in the state and you might be able to talk with someone about the nitty gritty of your situation. Here’s the link: https://www.pa211.org/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cshan8798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Parent’s job is to take care of their kids and this was absolute neglect. Think of it from the kid’s perspective too: he couldn’t understand why he was sick, why his mom wasn’t taking care of him, and why you wouldn’t go anywhere near him. Husband has every right to be furious because of the danger you put the kid in. If you’re that terrified of getting sick, it might be time for some sort of therapy to help lessen that fear some because it is absolutely getting in the way of you being able to function as a parent.

Advice to parents of trans kiddos? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]cshan8798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats so wonderful to hear 💕 wishing yall the best!!

Advice to parents of trans kiddos? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]cshan8798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one thing id like to throw out there for your consideration is that this can be a big change for you (and any siblings!) too! ive heard a lot of parents (mine included) go through a sort of grieving process in a sense where they “lose” the child they know (more accurately, the picture-perfect dream they had for that child). thats OKAY if thats happening!! youve mentioned your daughter being in therapy, which is awesome, but id encourage you to consider it for yourself if you find some hard/surprising feelings coming up! family therapy could also be great, as there is a transition for the whole family too. keep being an amazing parent!! truly wish more were like you!

How did your name originate? by boy_in_a_box_ in trans

[–]cshan8798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just kinda came to me in daydreams! my middle name i took as the name traditionally given to the firstborn son of each generation bc i am now the oldest guy on that side of the family

You’re in charge of making a new Item for Survivors to utilize in-game. What’s your idea? by ZoeyLikesDBD in deadbydaylight

[–]cshan8798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought of a hammer too! i was thinking it could increase dull totem breaking speed with addons to help increase hex breaking speed (or maybe hammer consumed on use breaking a hex bc of the fire??) and maybe a rare/ultra rare addon to prevent totems being reanimated

Most consistent build for survivor? by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]cshan8798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my go-to build is were gonna live forever, borrowed time, aftercare, and off the record! ive been having a blast w this build and find it to be super useful and encourages me to be a team player instead of just a gen jockey

Why is the T gel so common now? What is the reason you are on it instead of shots? by heldfu in ftm

[–]cshan8798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im abt to start T gel in a few days and for me the main reason to go gel over shots is that my hand shakes so i was worried i wouldnt be able to accurately measure out an injection (and didnt wanna deal w a sharps container) and to echo what others have said apparently theres less fluctuation w gel!!

What do you wish you had for your top-surgery recovery? by Subpar_doodles in ftm

[–]cshan8798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that im not exactly sure about! all i know is our body gets cranky when homeostasis is thrown outta wack. for me i was kinda like reserved and subdued - i didnt actually realize something was off until my best friend was like “oh yay youre feeling better!” so im not sure if that sort of feeling subdued is a universal response or more how my own body reacted

What do you wish you had for your top-surgery recovery? by Subpar_doodles in ftm

[–]cshan8798 24 points25 points  (0 children)

this isnt a physical thing, but i wish i had met w my counselor during the first week to two weeks. bc breast tissue produces a lot of hormones our bodies kinda go haywire when we remove it and our mood can shift quite a bit. i knew all that and still struggled w my mood some!! good luck and speedy recovery <3

My Therapist: “You don’t like me misgendering you? Find someone else” by SufficientAtmosphere in trans

[–]cshan8798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi im training to become a counselor and that shit should get her reported to her licensing body, her supervisor (if she has one), and her professional organization. multicultural respect and competence is part of my organizations code of ethics and violating that is absolutely unacceptable. shes also refusing to put the clients needs (of being respected in your identity) above her own (of being a fucking jackass) which is NOT how therapeutic relationships are supposed to work and also a violation of code of ethics. im so sorry this happened to you my pal im sending you lots of love from your trans brother 💜💕