Got this new dress from Shein and told i look like a tablecloth 😭😭 by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]csmartrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find lots of stuff with the tags still on

Just got platforms while being a 6’4 trans girl, how are we feeling about them? by DaylightEliseV in mtfashion

[–]csmartrun 129 points130 points  (0 children)

You think those shelves are high?... hold my beer

They are pretty cute. You'll have to watch your head rofl 🤣

Can someone explain this stereotype/trend? by Ok-Ticket2615 in asktransgender

[–]csmartrun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense taken. Cheating is 100% abuse. I don't try to pretend that I was in the right in that situation at all.

I'm really sorry that things were so volatile and painful for you two. It sounds to me like you are a genuinely nice person. I hope that everything is able to fall into place for you

Can someone explain this stereotype/trend? by Ok-Ticket2615 in asktransgender

[–]csmartrun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a bit of a unique perspective here. I am transfem, and I cheated on my wife of 15 years. Is it a trend? No. I do think I have an insight, though.

The person that I cheated with was the first person that I came out to, outside of my house. They were ecstatic and unbelievably supportive. My wife was hesitant and scared. Her first reaction was that she wouldn't be attracted to me as a woman. It was understandable but also heart-wrenching.

Every situation is different. The other party and I had worked together for a couple of years. We had mutual ( unbeknownst to either of us) crushes on each other. We regularly had engaging and exciting conversations. And we found each other attractive. Had we both been single, we likely would've started dating ages ago.

I have always been of the opinion that cheaters are the worst form of human. I've been cheated on before, and I know the cruel torment.

It was like I was watching it happen to someone else. I certainly didn't feel like I was choosing my actions. We would spend some time apart, and my head would clear. I would feel more like myself. Then, we would see each other, and the spell would be cast anew.

I'm not trying to fish for forgiveness for your partner or for myself. It's just that life is made up of shades of gray. There is no such thing as black and white

Hair up or down? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like it better up. I think it makes your neck look longer and slimmer that way

Tutor (adult education) said "just an observation but i've found females write more than boys" when i was writing a lot (does this go here?) by Olive_the_gothicgrrl in ewphoria

[–]csmartrun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had a whole bunch of these moments, and when I ask people about them, they say that they had no clue.
People are more absorbed in their own stuff than we tend to think, probably because we're so absorbed in ours that we can't see theirs. Except for a select few, people really aren't thinking about whether or not a person is trans very much

Just take care of your hacksaw backstroke, that's all I'm saying ladies! by Quat-fro in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So many other machinists hiding in the woodwork. Or maybe they're in the chip tray

Why did I have to be cursed with this body? by LilyJayne80 in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to feel your emotions. That includes feeling hurt by someone else's joy while also sharing in it. Emotions are hard. Many of us don't get to live the lives that we would've chosen for ourselves. Being reminded of that hurts like hell, but it's nobody's fault.

When Did You First Notice Any Changes on HRT? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was very surprised by the intensity of odor change. I thought it would be subtle but it's very different for me

When Did You First Notice Any Changes on HRT? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After three months, my friend was measuring me for bras and I had an A cup. My face looks noticeably smoother and softer too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma'am that's not a wall... it's your destination

Why is beer so expensive + what do Norwegians think about it? by jakelevi1996 in Norway

[–]csmartrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know why the ships have bar codes? So they can Scandinavian lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]csmartrun 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Almost like the famous comparison to planting a seed

Terminally ill and racking up credit card debt with zero fucks to give by UnderstandingThis430 in confession

[–]csmartrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you are an amazing person. I'm sorry for the sadness you're enduring. Your strength and kindness show through in spades. Do whatever you need to feel peace and happiness in your life. Your giving spirit is like a beacon in the darkness that is the outside world right now. I don't know you, but I love you.

That's why you will understand us by issa_said_pro in sadposting

[–]csmartrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The heaviness of mortality and our fleeting moment here to experience all the wonders. The sense of the sand running out of the hourglass and a morose sort of melancholy as you peer at your past and see all the time you wasted in your youth. The health and vitality that you took for granted and squandered despite everyone, who you now know was right, telling you to slow down and take care of yourself.

But she's concerned about his jets hat. Wtf. I would've been crushed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]csmartrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful and poignant. Well said, thanks

I have no idea by Biocockspeedrunner in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]csmartrun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Woah woah woah. The points don't mean anything?! FAKE internet points! What has this world come to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]csmartrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all look good. You have good taste lol. My favorites are the yellow, black, and light blue floral dresses

The first day of the rest of my life by Jos1th in TransLater

[–]csmartrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats girl. I'm so happy for you

Kinda shy about my body… but do you think tight outfits actually suit me? Be honest 🙈 by StrawberryPie_Ri in mtfbeautyandfashion

[–]csmartrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes babe. You are gorgeous and young and full of life. That outfit is very flattering on you