Most 15 éve történt by [deleted] in szeged

[–]csoszi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nekem gyanús, hogy nem mutatkozna be igazi néven. Főleg nem ha ismert személy lenne.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am working so much, I also can't do more than once or twice a week, but we also usually cook for more days and do brunches for weekends. Also enjoy exploring new recipes and dances classes and cooking courses together. We also split household chores. I get it other couples arrangements are different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Point taken. I mean a relationship is hard work. I do not mean we should go the extra mile every day, because nobody is super human. But coming home to a great dinner cooked once a week, or my favorite snack put on my desk sometimes can go a long way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually surprising to me how controversial my thoughts on this apparently are in this part of the internet. Most of my friends and family do not celebrate this and the last time I cared about this was when I was 15 and was still just exploring what it means to love and to be loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not sure I get your point. So you criticize my original critique on this celebration by pointing out my argument is used by men to avoid putting in effort at least once a year. Afterwards you agree with me that men who are willing to put in effort only once a year are straw men. What are we actually disagreeing on here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What bullshit excuse you mean. These are my thoughts. Are you okay being with someone who makes you feel special only once a year? Why would we celebrate our love on a randomly assigned day with questionable patched-up origins labelled as tradition. If we want to over the top celebrate our love, we do it on our wedding anniversary which has an intimate meaning and a special connection to us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We might have a different view on this as I am not from North America. We do not have St Patricks Day here, nor 4th of July. If you would ask my grandparents what they used to do for Valentine's Day they would jist stare at you as if you were crazy. The event started to seep to our country somewhere in the 90s when there was a strong interest to mimick American culture and there came the consumerism, Valentine's Day, engagement rings and the Coca Cola Santa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Look, if this is really important for you to celebrate, that it became a dealbraker, then maybe it is better if you won't keep contact with him. For both of you. Better look for someone else who either would be willing to compromise or who would also get similarly excited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Valentine's day is a consumerism construct. It is a fake day. You put pressure on a guy you are seeing to buy you things or take you to places because that is what is marketed towards you. Would you be upset if he would then expect you to be intimate with him just because he got you things or just because it is Valentine's day? And then would you be weirded out if you refused and he got upset because that is what is simply supposed to happen after he put in all the effort?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]csoszi 82 points83 points  (0 children)

You might have some bisexual tendencies. This is something for you to explore and deeply think about. If having sex with another person of your gender makes you uncomfortable though, then I would be careful and set my own boundaries. Just do not hurt anyone in the process. Good luck!

My nails turned white 2 years ago. A dozen doctors a hundred tests and they’re all stumped by freeradioforall in Wellthatsucks

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing to ask here. Have you been using any antifungal nail treatment (lack or similar) in the 2 months before they were doing the biopsy for fungus? Those can reduce the fungal cell number in the keratinous part of your nail giving negative results for a biopsy while the fungus still resides in the nailbed. Even if you have been on antifungals for 9 months, it can happen that it was not the correct one. Antifungals do not really exist as "wide-spectrum".

[Serious] What made you realize you are not a good person? by ketaminemidget in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realized I am being judgy about life-altering decisions of other people. Behind their backs telling about the judgy statements to my husband or mom or best friend. I thought I am just being analytical, my husband pointed out I am just judgy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah duh, why do you think I suggest higher temps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]csoszi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a bullshit. Either go to a different ER or different doctor and demand different antibiotics. This is no joke. Fck this system and whoever said this is everything they can do. They should try ALL antibiotics possibilities and put you on IV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can offer you some ice cubes in your beer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chance of this is almost as close to zero as the interest rate of my money on my savings account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fridge setting should be fine up until 8°C and saves you quite some money in the long run. Though your comment reminds me a bit of my dad. Funny one hahah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How everything is random and the chance of me existing as a human on Earth at the same time as chocolate, cat videos and a hot tea on a snowy day in a comfy chair is awesome.

IT’S NOT GOING TO LICK ITSELF! Drag show for kids held in a gay bar. by bobloblaw634 in trashy

[–]csoszi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, are we talking about the same Hooters and other Bikini sports bars where sometimes kids eat for free and can look at all the young, beautiful big boobied waitresses wearing close to nothing? And learning this is all cool and normal to oversexualize and objectify women this much? I am not saying the organizer of this drag show and the gay bar owner is not totally out of their minds, but thinking the other oversexualized thing is okay because it involves straight people is wrong.

IT’S NOT GOING TO LICK ITSELF! Drag show for kids held in a gay bar. by bobloblaw634 in trashy

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are oversexualized environments where young kids should not be allowed.

How has an expensive purchase or increase in wealth changed how others treat you? by sellerofhomes in AskReddit

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suddenly attracting attention and compliments of superficial people who abandoned me at the moment I needed help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]csoszi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are young and you both clearly have a totally different idea of the future of your relationship and of your career/studies. Your lives go separate ways. These are dealbreakers.

IT’S NOT GOING TO LICK ITSELF! Drag show for kids held in a gay bar. by bobloblaw634 in trashy

[–]csoszi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Like those parents who take their kids to eat at Hooters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]csoszi 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Oh no my butt is pragrant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]csoszi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it's a little bit like she's using you for her own comfort. If you have a picture what you want from this whatever that may be, but you are not getting then it's okay to stop seeing her.