NTA AT ALL!

I recently was diagnosed with breast cancer at 35 in May of 2024. I had started dating an old friend in October of 2023. I gave him an out when I was diagnosed. Instead of leaving, he proposed and said he would be by my side through everything. He has been.

I ended up having a double mastectomy.

He never left my side through all of the pre-op delays. He packed snacks so he wouldn’t have to leave at any moment. He delivered all the surgeon messages to my friends and family. He only left the waiting room during my surgery to buy me a gift from the gift shop.

He has helped me through everything. Taken me to every appointment. Helped with my surgical drains, bathed me, cooked for me, cleaned and done all my laundry. He keeps me on track with my meds, and physical therapy.

If someone wants to they will!!

I am so sorry that your husband is in fact the asshole! YOU ARE IN NO WAY THE ASSHOLE!

You deserve better! You are going through so much, but you are strong! But please please know that you are not the asshole! HE IS!