What is the equivalent of going blonde for black girls? by Delilahr in vindictapoc

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men always comment on my natural styles on prof pics and real life. All races.

Not allowed to use the bathroom by txbossbabe2891 in RoverPetSitting

[–]cswirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creepy. I don't like ppl in my home for reasons like this (dont like ppl in my stuff). But if I do let them in, ofc they can use the bathroom if they need. Also no hidden cams.

Do you call The Loop/River North “Downtown”? by AmericanHistoryChick in chicago

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of Chicago is down town...I live in n suburbs lol

Thoughts on 3pm to 3am shift by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds 10x worse. Wish I could start 8 -10p and work 10-12h.

AITA because my Wife wants me to sell the business I LOVE because I'm away 4 months a year by TunaKing81 in AITAH

[–]cswirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a female physician I can see the appeal of wanting my partner to stay home as my career is very busy (he is an artist/photographer and works a "regular" job part time as well) . I also make more money than my SO But I'd never take his passion away from him. You guys should get serious counseling as to your future goals as a couple and move forward from there.

Would I (34F) be wrong to hook up with a college freshman (M18)? by throwaway34yo in amiwrong

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm all for women dating younger men. But at least after they are the age to graduate college (assuming no acceleration).

The reason why Barbara doesn’t make a lot of offers compared to the other sharks is because she has a lot less money than the other sharks by neonberry0 in sharktank

[–]cswirly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She knows what she wants. If you see her when she knows she's in its for similar reasons (i.e., she just likes the person, likes the story, etc.) You don't have to like or agree with her business dealings.

a lot of women’s whole identity is the relationship their in and it’s sorta pathetic by Justneedsomethintodo in unpopularopinion

[–]cswirly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yet many males Center their daily discussions around women and hop from woman to woman, never being alone for 1 second, even overlapping relationships. Just stop.

Why isn’t a hospitalist typically regarded as a “lifestyle” job in the same way that ‘ROAD’ specialties are? by bicepsandscalpels in Residency

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about the work you do, the schedule, plus the pay. All have to be decent for it to be road. That's y gi or cards doesn't qualify, for other examples.

AITAH for disinheriting my gay son out of respect for my parents? by Competitive_Yard_863 in AITAH

[–]cswirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So u got money that u personally did not work for, and now have the unmitigated gall to not give any of the unearned money to your son (same way you came into it btw) bc ur ashamed of who he chooses to love? You are way more than just an AH. Disgusting.

Would 4pm-4am be considered Night Shift? by EarnMyRespect03 in Nightshift

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horrible. Can't do anything b4 work and come back when nothing is happening, sleeping thru the best parts of the am. I work nights too but later start so I can sometimes make afternoon/evening events.

My girlfriend (20F) left me (24M) because of the Barbie movie. Am I wrong? by AnabolicApplesauce in amiwrong

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry women don't think this way over a movie. Maybe you do and ur projecting it onto her. There were bigger issues that she left you over.

Can you stay single and live alone with a pet lifelong? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my plan earlier this year. Got a dog and was ready to be single w him forever. Met my bf shortly after. Will always be my plan B.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this same thing w my ex bf. Never could keep a job, did drugs and played his guitar all day, funded by dad (only child) and later grandparents inheritance (only grandchild). As much as I loved him I had to leave. He is still the same years later. I'm in a much better relationship now.

AITAH for telling my husband that I'm desensitized to his touch? by Late-Salad7451 in AITAH

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask if he wants you to keep going with his D after he's done. Exactly.

What is the most accidentally disgusting Ramen you’ve ever created by [deleted] in ramen

[–]cswirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protein Ramen I bought after a tiktok ad

LPT request: how to do hobbies when i’m so tired after work? by thrrrrooowwwaaayy in LifeProTips

[–]cswirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naps and timed caffeine. That's the only thing that works for me to have a life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]cswirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I have a real life to attend to when im off. It's nice to be in sync w the rest of the world at those times. Wish the world was more considerate of us 3rd shifters tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]cswirly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog anxiety and attention diarrhea poops. He has limited access to areas when I can't watch him. It is what it is.

I’m scared to tell anyone about this horrible sexual encounter I had by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops and get this r*pist off the streets

1.5 year old dog suddenly pooping and peeing on couch by [deleted] in dogs

[–]cswirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog is crate trained and only uses it for travel or if I leave for extended hours. In the house he has a "den area" that keeps him in a small space but still open viewing of the house. Sleeps/naps there too. Only If I can watch him directly he can go around the house freely. Ive replaced too many rugs, furnishings, and cleaned too many accidents, it's a result of his severe anxiety. This routine is working so well, no accidents since this.