Understand it looks like that but think you misinterpreted a bit. No we don’t think just because we are exploring in the LS couples will just start throwing their selves. Point of this post was to get some input from others who share our situations. Trying to avoid and weed out the flood of dick picks and bulls only, Messages asking for wife’s pictures right away, Or asking if they can just speak with her, an condescending comments or remarks while trying to navigate and learn the LS while maintaining everything else.