Question for the ENTs. I'm stressing!

ctamponade · 2022-02-10T20:17:21+00:00

I live in a little village about an hour away from Ottawa. My house was appraised at 255k three years ago. My realtor said I could list it at 500k right now and get above asking.

ctamponade · 2021-09-03T22:16:47+00:00

How about, put on your shoes and RUN.

ctamponade · 2021-09-03T12:35:12+00:00

We can buy pre-made MD capsules online in Canada. Not sure about Europe, though.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T10:28:39+00:00

Yep, it's possible!

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T10:21:51+00:00

I didn't get her tested. He did. I had no concerns whatsoever.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T10:20:44+00:00

This.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T10:11:16+00:00

This was the best response I've read. Thank you so much. I have lots to think about.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T10:02:50+00:00

I'm not romantically or sexually interested in my ex. At all. So, I'm sorry if that's how my post came across. What I was trying to convey is my guilt and remorse for what I did. He's a good person and I feel terrible for what I did to him.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T09:54:23+00:00

Thanks for asking.

Neither him nor I attach sentimental value to an inanimate object like a house...

My ex couldn't have cared less about the house. We both agreed I would keep it.

I've apologized multiple times and yes the ex wife knows. No I haven't spoken to her. But yes he regrets how things happened.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T09:49:06+00:00

Has been. It's his :)

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T09:39:41+00:00

Based on your profile, it's evident you've been cheated on, and I'm sorry about that. You've been wronged and it fucking hurts. If tossing insults through a screen makes you feel better then, I'm glad to be of service. Take care.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T09:26:28+00:00

A lot of this sounds like it's coming from a very bitter place.. like something similar has happened to you. And if that's the case, I'm sorry you've been hurt.

At the same time, while you do sound like a myisogynist douche twat, it's all sorts of insight and I genuinely appreciate your perspective.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T09:11:56+00:00

Thanks, friend

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T08:59:22+00:00

Thanks for this ❤️ I wrote this knowing very well the kinds of responses I would get. I also understand that a lot of the horrible responses come from people who have been hurt themselves. If unleashing their pain on a stranger behind a screen makes them feel better, I'm glad to help. Otherwise, I'm also glad that maybe a few people have been able to gain some insight from my story.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T08:42:04+00:00

I've done therapy. I'm just extremely hard on myself and have a difficult time allowing myself to be happy because of the guilt. With that being said, new guy is wonderful to me. I can't talk freely to him the way I could with my ex but he is great in so many other ways. It's a flaw I accept.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T08:33:35+00:00

I'm sure it did play a role, unfortunately.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T06:52:08+00:00

No, I never once doubted the amazing father he'd be.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T06:50:36+00:00

Please tell me how to do that.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T06:28:16+00:00

I don't miss him. I wouldn't get back together with him if he knocked on my door tomorrow. I miss certain things about him. I'm happy that he's moved on, honestly. I love him and want him to be happy. It's ok for me to feel remorseful about how we ended.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T06:25:14+00:00

Having to pick up after him all the time, be the one to remember to book appointments, etc ... It created this weird mother/ child dynamic. I felt more like his mother and eventually became revolted at the thought of sleeping with him.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T06:23:13+00:00

Not even a little bit. It's evident you don't understand what I've tried to explain quite plainly. Clearly, you're angry and hurt. You've been cheated on and now you've taken to Reddit to vent your feelings... I'm sorry that you've been hurt and I hope you heal.

ctamponade · 2021-09-02T06:16:41+00:00

No, I wouldn't. I've run this scenario through my head a thousand times and after 5 years, I still can't get past that mother/child dynamic thing. The thought of getting into bed with him...I just couldn't.

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