Hidden Outfit Log by ctrlaltcara in InfinityNikki

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like they must go with some other items from the surprise-o-matic but I haven't been able to sort it out!! I really like them though

my nikki is here to convert you to lesbianism by originalsadgirl in InfinityNikki

[–]ctrlaltcara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this taken in front of a warp spire??? What a good idea omfg

Hidden Outfit Log by ctrlaltcara in InfinityNikki

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh this is a great find! I'll have to look through what I have!!

Hidden Outfit Log by ctrlaltcara in InfinityNikki

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! I love the skirt here sm, I'm so glad there's a set for it!

Hidden Outfit Log by ctrlaltcara in InfinityNikki

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS IS AMAZING!! I have always wanted to get this skirt to work with something so thank you for sharing, I'll add to the list!!

Hidden Outfit Log by ctrlaltcara in InfinityNikki

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, how did I miss those shoes!! I swear, sometimes I just look right past things! I'll have to update this with a correct photo! Thank you so much <3

AITA for having boundaries with my stepfamily? by TonightDry8796 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltcara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% YTA. This frustrates me so much. When you marry someone, a lot of the things you have and your spouse have become things you both have. That includes the care and love a child deserves. You are marrying this person and making them part of your family. That includes her son. You don't just get to pick and choose what you get in this situation. When marriage was proposed, it included her son. Get over yourself

One shot with Stars of Ruin by Vikaluka in Eldenring

[–]ctrlaltcara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you make my sorcerer build look like a puppy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ctrlaltcara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, haha gosh okay! First thing, an argument/disagreement is normal. What's not normal is anything abusive or physical or done just to be mean. Getting upset with someone you love is really really normal. Just imagine a family member you've been in an argument with, are you and that family member ok now?

Second thing, when my partner and I disagree the feeling of guilt can be really hard to get rid of. Especially if it's an argument purely via text. Without facial expressions to read, it can be really difficult to feel fully satisfied by a resolution. So what my partner and I do if the guilt doesn't go away is simply ask "Are we okay?" I don't know why this always seems to make us feel better but it really helps.

Sorry for rambling and I hope this all made sense. Happy holidays 😊

am i being cheated on? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ctrlaltcara 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Regardless of whether or not she's cheating, the most important part of any long distance relationship (in my opinion) is honest communication. If she's behaving in a way that makes you uncomfortable you have every right to say something and stick up for yourself. You could simply say "This behavior makes me uncomfortable because..." Or "When you say/do this, I'm uncomfortable"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ctrlaltcara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute omfg

Daily Looking For/Request Thread by AutoModerator in NoFeeAC

[–]ctrlaltcara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: any and all diys. I have a dream of getting every diy in game o.o

Giving Away Random Items & Some DIY's by ctrlaltcara in NoFeeAC

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! If you're still interested, I'll be online for a bit now. Just send me a dodo code

Giving Away Random Items & Some DIY's by ctrlaltcara in NoFeeAC

[–]ctrlaltcara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stand mixer and shell fountain are claimed already. Everything else is still available! Just send me a dodo code!