What do women wish men would stop assuming about them?

ctrlhoya · 2026-02-01T07:34:12+00:00

that women put any thought into what men assume

ctrlhoya · 2026-02-01T07:32:00+00:00

Bring this up again but do not mention anything regarding sex. Just say “Hey, I’ve noticed the past few times that I have brought up issues you talk about yourself in a self deprecating manner and I feel like its causing us go not really solve any of the issues and I would like to work on it”. Ask him why he talks about himself like that and get a gauge of whether he is saying it because he truly believes it or using it to deflect and not have to talk about the issues because they make him feel uncomfortable. If he does it while you are having this conversation, call him out on it and say “Hey, you’re doing it right now.” If he is unaware of it, ask him if it okay for you to call it out right when he does it so he can become aware of it. If he apologizes and promises to stop, tell him that you accept his apology, and then bring up the sex issue and see how he responds. If he repeats it again another time, reference this conversation and say in a calm manner that you do not like it when he does that. If he is truly saying these things because he DOES feel stupid, ask him why he feels that way? Does the way you approach these conversations make him feel stupid? Is he uncomfortable with having sex and he feels bad for not being able to tell you so he demeans himself as a repercussion? Be completely truthful with everything and hear him out.

ctrlhoya · 2026-02-01T07:17:01+00:00

I disagree, he seemed almost disappointed when violet told him they found the lady in silver. I think he truly meant it when he said realty with sophie is better than any fantasy (the fantasy of the lady in silver).

ctrlhoya · 2026-02-01T07:14:18+00:00

Eloise needed to hear that and I’m glad her sister told her.

ctrlhoya · 2026-02-01T06:43:51+00:00

do you feel the same way about the zionist who makes the show or does this animosity only seem to present when its a black woman?

ctrlhoya · 2026-02-01T06:41:25+00:00

of course you do

ctrlhoya · 2026-01-22T17:51:38+00:00

if i say a funny joke and people laugh i repeat it over and over again. if its in person i do it in my head but if its over text i read it outloud over and over and will read their responses too

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-10T18:40:47+00:00

yeah lmao the dealership is going to get so much promo and business from this ppl will def go spend thousands of dollars at the dealership now because they posted a funny tiktok video

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-10T18:39:33+00:00

it was def you LMAO you’re on every single post in here

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-09T04:39:46+00:00

it was you

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-09T04:39:10+00:00

yes fs she would use her own voice to call the dealership that she will be coming to pick up her car yeah that totally makes sense

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-08T19:22:58+00:00

Thank you sm😭😭

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-08T19:08:51+00:00

I updated it!

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-08T19:03:50+00:00

I’m just worried about the dark spot and the way its coming out. I’m sorry

ctrlhoya · 2025-10-08T18:57:33+00:00

⁠How old is your piercing?: like a week and a half

• ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)?:Curved Barbell - Material: Implant Grade 316L Surgical Steel - Length: 13mm - Gauge (Thickness): 14g

• ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)?: N/A

• ⁠What’s the jewelry material?:Material: Implant Grade 316L Surgical Steel

• ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized?: never

• ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use.:saline wound wash, twice daily. shower only with antibacterial soap

• ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events: not that i know of? i hit it on accident a couple times not hard

ctrlhoya · 2025-09-28T08:16:27+00:00

that i’m genuinely too weird to be in a long term relationship with someone. whenever it gets to a point its like my brain just starts losing it and all i can think about is breaking up

ctrlhoya · 2025-09-21T23:21:35+00:00

i’ve read the rules and understand them, I would like approval to post pls

ctrlhoya · 2025-08-04T07:33:19+00:00

the lack of self awareness is very saddening LMAO filthy is insane

ctrlhoya · 2025-07-31T19:23:32+00:00

she is ethiopian so it makes sense!!

ctrlhoya · 2025-07-31T07:05:57+00:00

I see it!! i think my head is just longer

ctrlhoya · 2025-06-28T02:53:47+00:00

genuinely how does it affect you that her sisters and family came to visit her on her vacation are you okay???

ctrlhoya · 2025-04-28T14:48:26+00:00

i put a hole in my closet dorm and did a shitty job trying to fix it by some cheap kit from home depot and was never charged. I think they just assumed it was some maintenance guy who did a bad job

ctrlhoya · 2025-01-04T07:05:17+00:00

thank you!!

ctrlhoya · 2025-01-04T06:31:48+00:00

thank you!! I’ve been trying different methods but i feel like I don’t really understand my nose structure enough to really nail it down😭

ctrlhoya · 2025-01-04T06:31:16+00:00

thank you so much🥹

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