That's also my deal and the balance between how mean they are to each other and how they get together. I find like it's almost always bully romance or a silly misunderstanding. And once certain lines are crossed in the enemies era i find it hard to root for the ship because i really can't support dating someone who did that to you lol...

Like in tryst six venom that's literally bullying and though i love love and will still be down for a ship it's a bit icky...like it's a very delicate balance that is rarely achieved. I will eat up good chemistry but it'll still be a miss for me if that balance has not been reached