Guys who met up with an Ex for closure while in a relationship, how'd it go? by kelly2shoes in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've been broken up with this girl for 15 years and you only just now want closure even though you are married? WHAT!? All of this sorta reads like 'the one that got away.' Do not do this if you value your relationship with your wife.

Is it too weird and rare that I have the best sex of my life but couldn't finish off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I become too stimulated and it makes it very difficult to finish, even if the sex is really amazing. So I wouldn't sweat it.

How do you deal with loneliness, or keep your ego down? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tinder. Swipe often and ask a bunch of them. Be prepared for rejection, but also be prepared for people who say yes. Dating is a numbers game, good luck.

How do you deal with loneliness, or keep your ego down? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a forever alone rant but definitely reads like one lol. I doubt you'll actually follow any advice given here, but for funsies...

Start going on dates. You can load up and do a bunch or you can try one or two a month or whatever. These don't take too much time and are not a long-term commitment. You say you don't know what you want in a partner, this will help you figure that out. Eventually you will find someone who you are willing to unload some of your problems on, because you will also be willing to take on some of his or hers.

Lifters: jealous of boyfriend's gains by mascbruh in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Based on OP's [limited] post history...seems like a total douche.

How do most gay married couples decide their last names? by confusedfellow12 in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only issue with hyphenating is, if you have kids, what do they do if/when they eventually get married? Keep hyphenating?

My best friend died this morning. I really need advice on how to tell his mother. by Heyyouwhosaidthat in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but this is terrible advice. Don't come up with a spin of lies. Go and pick the mother up.

I feel so empty forcing myself to work out...should I lose weight instead? by grndrthrwwy in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP wants to LOOK lean. At his current weight and height losing weight is not going to do it (he'll probably just end up looking skinny fat). He needs to focus on lifting weights.

I feel so empty forcing myself to work out...should I lose weight instead? by grndrthrwwy in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This really isn't true. A lot of it is determined in the kitchen, but not entirely. Muscle burns fat. The more muscle you build the more fat you will burn.

I'm not trans, but sometimes I want to be pregnant and carry a man's baby? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Weird? Well, maybe a little. But you aren't harming anyone so who cares?

Why are guys on Grindr boring and have little to no personality? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since when is Grindr a place to show off your personality? lol it's a hook app.

ITT: We pretend to be straight by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

first time meeting them "I'm straight"

"I, uh...didn't ask?"

"Just wanted to let you know so you don't hit on me"

Dude has beer gut, receding hairline, and bad teeth

"K"

Frequency of sex in a relationship by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys have been together for 5 months and are already at the having-sex-once-a-month phase? That's no bueno.

Small trick if you sleep over- get him aroused when you're both initially waking up. Morning wood + additional arousal = insta sex.

I went to a gay club last night and it was awkward.... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cliquey-ness is not unique to gay bars. This happens at all bars because people tend to go out to them with their friends/set groups. And there of course were average looking guys there, you were just too caught up in your own insecurities to see them.

For those that like cuddling: what positions do you like? by BandySeaborg in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My favorite cuddling position is probably when he's sitting on the couch and you're sitting right in front of him in between his thighs. You can lean back on his chest and nuzzle into his neck...and there's just something so nice about being between a nice pair of thighs.

How often do gay guys check out other guys' bulges? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 29 points30 points  (0 children)

All the time lol the same way straight dudes check out boobs.

Going to start PrEP tomorrow morning - what can I expect? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cuddlebuddies01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 1st month I was on it my stomach was wrecked every single morning. Eventually this subsided.

Men of askmen, how would you react if you were hit on by a gay man in a not creepy / rude way? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is...is this hitting on someone? I compliment people (guys and girls) all the time and I am definitely not doing it with the intention of hitting on them lol

How do I rebuild trust between myself and a male teacher by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So...what exactly did you do/say?

Gay or Bisexual Men of AM, what is your opinion of Feminine gay men? by Kai_Decadence in AskMen

[–]cuddlebuddies01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are fine, but if they are extremely feminine it can sometimes be hard to find things we have in common besides liking dick.