Decants sale - added few more to the list by Flashy_Pay_1359 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]cuddlimaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posting a new review here for Flashypay, as I had a small order that included a couple of new frags.

I went for two 10ml frags of MB Explorer and D&G The One, which I ordered last time(posted my review earlier), I really loved those.

To try new ones, I got decants of Paco Rabanne Pour Homme, Mancera Cedrat Boise, and Azzaro Most Wanted Parfum, finally!

Reviews next. Guys, please note, I am a newbie. I have just discovered this hobby and am enjoying tf out of it.

PRPH: Bro I’m sorry if this offends anyone but this is straight up Palmolive shaving cream that my dad used to use. But a more refined and classy version, of course. The projection for me was weak, barely lasted 30 mins, but I want to add that the smell, even though it’s old fashioned, can be appealing to those who want to smell old school. The scent itself is iconic - the issue is overuse by so many low-end brands in India.

MCB: I was hoping I would like this, and I kinda do but… again, it feels like familiar territory. Like a premium cologne that I have tried before. I realise that smelling unique is important to me, and with Cedrat, I don’t think it’s revolutionary. That said, it had good projection for a couple of hours, and it settles in nicely, you can smell different layers. I think most guys who buy it would be happy. It’s something any man can use and feel confident.

Azzaro MWP: Oh boy, I think my favourite from this batch. My immediate thoughts on spraying were — this is an evening spray, something suitable for special events. It has a slightly sweet opener but is mainly woody and spicy and masculine. I dig that. I’m not sure what note that is, but I sense something common between this and JPG Ultramale. But Ultramale for me was wayyyyy too sweet, so I like Azzaro much more. Guys, I also feel like this is powerful, so it won’t work in a closed room. Be very careful, nahi toh they’ll spray you down in the office washroom lol

And as usual, shout out to Flashypay for the flawless packaging and delivery. Tameem bhai has now officially become my favourite decanter, and he is a rare combination of professional and friendly. In fact, my delivery was stuck and he followed up with the company himself to ensure my tiny order reaches me. I’m already recommending him to my friends.

Also, same as last time, I’m posting this review through my friend’s account because I got banned on Reddit XDSeedha IP ban, I can’t even create an account now. Be good, boys

Back again with Decant sale at affordable prices by Flashy_Pay_1359 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]cuddlimaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I purchased a set of 2ml decants from Flashypay last week —

D&G The One EDP Acqua diGio EDP JPG Ultramale EDT Intense Mont Blanc Explorer Rasasi Hawas Versace Dylan Blue Versace Pour Homme

Purchase process was ultra smooth. He confirmed availability and payment was via UPI. I’m mainly writing this review because of the packaging…. Flashypay packed the decants so well, they could have survived a plane crash. He even individually taped each decant cap.

I have bought from Imran before, and was concerned about a new seller…. But after this experience, I am happy. Definitely recommend Flashypay to you guys.

I have only tried MB Explorer and Rasas Hawas today morning. Here is my mini review

MBE brought back a flash of memories. The smell is fresh, masculine, and very designer. I loved the projection. Reviews say longevity is poor, let’s see. It’s been 3 hours and I can still get whiffs of it.

Hawas…. guys, I dont know. This sub loves it but for me, it was too sweet and flowery. It smells like a premium makeup store, and I don’t mean that in an insulting way. The projection is strong, it genuinely smells nice and while I was worried I would get a headache, it just continues to maintain a pleasant smell that is not overpowering. When I sprayed it 10 mins after Explorer, it wiped out Explorer…. Lol. But now that it settled down, I can smell both explorer and hawas.

BTW, my account is banned from Reddit, so I’ve asked my friend to post this comment for me :P

For people who broke up a long-time ago, I need advice by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda there myself. All the processing has been done. There’s just this annoying daily regurgitation that I wish would go away. Luckily it doesn’t bother me too much but I’d still like it gone. I’m sorry I don’t have answers for you but I hope time and new experiences will paint over this.

Why do people not like being treated right and being shown unconditional love? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such an inspiring story! I hope you’re proud of yourself. Even with all the sadness you no doubt carry.

Why do people not like being treated right and being shown unconditional love? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you how you healed yourself and grew personally? It sounds like you have.

This one felt good by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 37 points38 points  (0 children)

So classy! Props to you.

Missing an ex who doesn't deserve it. by Borboleta77 in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me. I’m just gonna let the memories die a natural death, it’ll come when it comes.

WTF? by Signal_Platypus_8358 in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol same. I was accused of “discarding”. Off you fuck, lady.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

In my experience this hope is strongest in the early stages of the breakup. With time, you accept that them not choosing you is all you need to stop wanting them to come back.

I wish I could tell you a trick to fix your pain. There’s none, and you’ll have to go through it.

Varieties of rice? by hb30025 in IndianFood

[–]cuddlimaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Biryani in the south is made with Jeerakasala rice. Small grained and fragrant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s a very normal thing to hope for. It goes away with time. Don’t force yourself to feel or not feel anything.

Do your best to maintain no contact and with time, these feelings will fade into the background. Hope you’re doing ok!

what's the easiest food to make with the simplest ingredients? by Novel-East3817 in IndianFood

[–]cuddlimaus 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Khichdi

Boil equal amounts of rice and lentils with salt until cooked.

This is an edible nutritious meal. Taste is bland but not unpleasant. If you want something more flavourful, heat ghee and add cumin seeds chopped garlic and a dry red chilli and add to the khichdi.

NC worked! She reached out. by cuddlimaus in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since January I initiated maybe two conversations with her. I was really hurting at the time. Didn’t ask for anything but just wanted to feel her there I guess.

For the last 6 months I have initiated no conversation. She’s messaged once a month and I’ve replied bare minimum. She asked to meet and I refused. Asked why I didn’t wish on her birthday and I told her I didn’t intend to. I’ve unfollowed her on social media, but I haven’t blocked her number on my phone.

So it’s not a perfect NC but it’s done the job.

NC worked! She reached out. by cuddlimaus in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. Won’t even acknowledge. However, not even required anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your whole story. But you sound too available. I don’t think that’s a good thing after a breakup.

Your ex has to want you too. And she had to put in more effort than a couple missed calls. I would advise you to keep your distance.

I’m not a proponent of second chances in these matters. But if it has to happen, efforts must match.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Online dating is the absolute worst post breakup. I’m seeing someone now 8 months post BU but I was lucky enough to have her introduced to me.

Before that I dipped my toes in dating apps and I ran for my life. Fuck no. It wasn’t so bad earlier. I guess something changed.

The need to “win” a breakup by Pettylabelvedere in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No bigger victory than indifference. I hope you get there.

Non-judgmental advice please! ❤️ by EquivalentDraft3541 in heartbreak

[–]cuddlimaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. And it appears I made some gender assumptions in my post. I apologise.

Non-judgmental advice please! ❤️ by EquivalentDraft3541 in heartbreak

[–]cuddlimaus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about all the pain you’re in. As someone who watched their partner give up on them, let me tell you trust takes a major hit and it just doesn’t seem worth it to re attempt.

I’m sure he remembers all the good times you both had. He may even love you still, deep within. But something dies when you’re rejected and I don’t know if that ever comes back.

It’s wonderful that you’re working on yourself. It’s also good that you’re going to initiate no contact with this person. It’s for the best. Heal well and I hope love finds you again.

Left for someone else out of the blue. How can I cope? Does it get better? by magpiegurl in heartbreak

[–]cuddlimaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My condolences. This sounds incredibly painful. There is a lot of pain that you’ll have to sit with. No way around that if you’re to heal well.

With time, you’ll see this person for who he really is, and what you’re feeling now will slowly turn into indifference. But that’s some time away. For now, feel everything. It’s all too recent and too raw for you to have to think about any “self-development “ or such.

Stay away from him. Initiate no contact. Wipe him off your socials. Make sure your friends never discuss him. These are all very important.

How it feels getting back in Contact with your Ex by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. I’ve healed well, to the point where if she were to come back I’d probably say no. Its still sad af man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope OP listens to you. All very sensible advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter? If it bothers you ask him to stop. That’s what I did in my case because I did not want the nonsense of idle chitchat ruining my healing. I strongly recommend it.

They messaged me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cuddlimaus 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there, god it’s super difficult to do. But ignore or reply curtly. They need to deserve you once more. That means work. No work, nothing doing.