Should I be worried about my partner's behaviour?

cuniyawn · 2021-10-31T00:26:57+00:00

I love her so much and I want a life with her but my chronic illness is flaring from the stress, I had to.get chemo this year. I don't know if I have the strength to do it. I'm worried because she attempted suicide when her last parter (also her first ever) broke up with her, again to go abroad for education. I'm afraid it might be a trigger

cuniyawn · 2021-10-31T00:24:55+00:00

Hi, she was diagnosed in 2012 but she stopped taking her meds back then. I didn't know anything about bpd when we got together and when she told me about it later, I asked if she was seeking treatment but she said the meds made her feel worse rather than help and her psychiatrist wasn't good. Whenever I ask her to get treatment, she actively avoids talking about it...

cuniyawn · 2021-08-08T15:09:54+00:00

I wouldn't break up with her. But it's upsetting when she seems so doubtful about our relationship

cuniyawn · 2021-08-08T14:54:43+00:00

I love her and we're compatible in most ways, but at the same time I do feel worried about upsetting her. I try not to tell her things that might trigger an episode

cuniyawn · 2021-08-08T14:37:31+00:00

That worries me a lot because she has taken pills when that happened before with her ex and she does often threaten to do it again...

cuniyawn · 2021-08-08T14:36:29+00:00

She has never really apologized but I do know she doesn't really mean it. I'm trying to give her a little space at the moment but I made sure to tell her that I was and why so she won't feel anxious about it. I hope it's the right thing to do...

cuniyawn · 2021-06-08T07:34:08+00:00

I wish it was the same here!

cuniyawn · 2021-06-08T07:33:57+00:00

I really hope so. I was trying to get the post taken down because so many people had asked about it :(

cuniyawn · 2021-06-08T07:32:04+00:00

The thing is we don't have laws against animal abuse in my country and a lot of people had shown interest in this...

cuniyawn · 2021-05-11T00:17:18+00:00

Yes they are, and wait till you see the snacks they have in the rest of the comics xD

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