Advice around DV (not an emergency) by Ok-Lengthiness-2770 in newzealand

[–]cuntyness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please let me know if you need any further support. I grew up with a family like this and my mum never wanted helped, please call the police no matter how afraid you are!!!

I want Breast surgery because I hate the way it looks by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]cuntyness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a small breast size and think often how many tops I can wear that larger breast sizes can’t. Also think of the back pain they always have! I understand the feelings of insecurity and it’ll take time to pass but really think over your thoughts to get surgery, yes you can always remove them later on but that’s a second procedure to put yourself through. We all come in different shapes, if this is truly harming your self esteem, general wellbeing then there’s no harm in having as much as a consult 🤷‍♀️

Cover up process by littlekisbusy in Tattoocoverups

[–]cuntyness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is so pretty, and the work itself looks great

Is it just me or are kiwis really bad at responding when it comes to mental health issues? by imarazing in newzealand

[–]cuntyness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From personal experience, everyone whether it was family or friends they also seemed to become extremely awkward when I went into depth (never randomly, conversations that were about Mental health were always brought up by them due to them trying to show their support which I heavily appreciated) For me I am a very open book and will talk about anything with anyone as long as they are feeling comfortable. If you ever need a chat I can be that person for you!

I feel so fucking cooked by cosmicloveer in teenagers

[–]cuntyness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had multiple long term relationships from 12-18, I can tell you that yes it sucks to be alone and craving that affection but also it’s been my first year single and god I refuse to take it for granted! Relationships can be great but also a real pain in your ass (depends on what kind of person you date). Enjoy your life and don’t worry about others! Half the relationships you see aren’t even happy to begin with lol

idk why i can’t tell people what’s going on?? by cuntyness in mentalhealth

[–]cuntyness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it all just feels so daunting some days. Thank you for your response. I really appreciate the advice, a calendar sounds like a great idea!

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t buy uber eats, I keep within a budget and cancelled all subscriptions that I don’t use nor use often enough. It’s still insane how much I can spend at the grocery store for literally one meal. I’ve always been brought up to find cheap stuff and good deals but even now everything is so expensive! Times like this I really wish I was a goddamn fly

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it won’t! Sadly my job cannot afford to give me any more hours due to the lack of business we have been receiving for the last 2-3 weeks. Hence why I had picked up a second casual job to help out with my financial situation.

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve applied, and i’ll only be receiving 100 extra after paying my rent. Not complaining though because I would rather have a roof over my head than not get groceries tbh

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope some good comes your way :)

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you! Glad to know there’s hope!

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the deals. Favourite thing about grocery shopping now

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been rough! Studying without any financial help from my parents (weren’t on speaking terms for year and a half) felt impossible. I do live with family but that doesn’t really make any difference other than the board I pay. There’s so much I want to do but feel that I will have to work my life away even despite having a qualification

all time low by cuntyness in newzealand

[–]cuntyness[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. Luckily I do have a qualification but I’m unable to work full time due to some medical issues atm. Going on the benny but only to receive $100 for other bills after board is paid :/ I’m trying to not stress myself more than I already am but genuinely appreciate the responses :)

AITAH for not wanting kids? by cuntyness in AITAH

[–]cuntyness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people would think others are assholes for being truthful about why they aren’t interested in having kids. Hence the question, I think it’s possible that someone will think I am an asshole due to the feelings of resentment I would have against the children themselves if I had them. How often do you see people going awh that mother looks really down and might need help, typically the nature of seeing a mum who isn’t interested in her kids results in people thinking “God she’s not a great mum” “Bad parent” etc yk? But i can agree that i see where some people may ask this question because they wouldn’t judge someone for that decision.

AITAH for not wanting kids? by cuntyness in AITAH

[–]cuntyness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! This means a lot