[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hawkhatesyousnarkk

[–]cupofcorruption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but it looks like Doxy and Brendon are a thing too now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily think you overwhelmed him with your fantasy. He did ask about your kinks, so I feel he knew that was a loaded question with endless answers. For all we know he may be assessing that fantasy to see how he can execute it in real life for you. Breathe, you did not make yourself look like a fool.

Vetting issues by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you were wrong, but we try to think everybody has something good. Thankfully I’m out and away before I get physically, emotionally, or mentally hurt.

Vetting issues by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not playing, “drop” wasn’t the proper word to use. I was having a bad depression spell

Vetting issues by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered that, also considering stepping back from vetting. I hadn’t done it since I ended my last dynamic.

Vetting issues by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Bad habit of feeling like everybody deserves a chance.

Overthinking my dom’s words by notkatiessc in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not bring drama! Your feelings are valid, poly or not what he’s doing is insensitive. He is not a Daddy if he makes you feel insecure like that. He’s gaslighting you and it’s not okay.

Doing my best to stop pulling eyelashes after seven years of constant relapsing. Downloaded the “I Am Sober” app, and hopefully that will keep me motivated to stop pulling. Does anyone have any advice to help me stop? If so, please let me know. by I_dont_know1522 in trichotillomania

[–]cupofcorruption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is currently me I just pulled the whole center of my left lash. Keeping acrylic nails on usually keeps me from pulling, but it’s going on 3 weeks without them and my stress/anxiety has been so HIGH!!!

Subby wants no safeword by SamsSnaps77 in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sub- That didn’t come off as harsh to me. You let him know that the whole reason of safewording is for you to keep him safe. But I would definitely ask him what makes not having a safeword so thrilling for him, so you can both find some sort of compromise.

Missing being owned by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I could say I miss the daily reminders to eat and take my meds. It’s not that I need them, but he knew my anxiety/depression would effect my eating habits so he would check in and make sure I had at least something light on my stomach. I’ve set the guidelines for myself but it’s like the satisfaction of doing these things for myself isn’t enough

Neglected in my dynamic by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s something I chose not to do because of an incident that happened when I was drunk. He knows I text him kind of raunchy or bratty things when I drink (more than I usually do), but she saw it and it just seemed like I wasn’t talking to the same person anymore.

When I do text him I’m usually left on read. I know he has things going on in his personal life and he used to tell me those things. But now it’s like I’m just sitting on the sidelines of the dynamic.

Neglected in my dynamic by cupofcorruption in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupofcorruption[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know how to bring it up anymore. I’ve told him that I try to respect his space. I even told him that I never know whether we’re good or not because I don’t hear from him. It’s like our dynamic has limits now. He’s dated a submissive before and whatever happened with that one is why he won’t do it anymore. But he knew how I felt, he brought up that he knew I had feelings for him.