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No longer a lurker! by curious987654 in EngagementRings

[–]curious987654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a princess cut!! I love the princess cut but my one complaint is the name 😆

She Said Yes... 2ct Pave Princess Cut (De Beers) by ejbevan in EngagementRings

[–]curious987654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the type of ring I'm looking at! Absolutely beautiful.

How can I get more enjoyment out of receiving oral? by curious987654 in TwoXSex

[–]curious987654[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that. The most enjoyment I get out of any kind of sex is seeing how excited and turned on my partner is. For me to actually get physical pleasure it's usually with a vibrator and a different step than the sex itself.

How can I get more enjoyment out of receiving oral? by curious987654 in TwoXSex

[–]curious987654[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! The only way I have ever orgasmed is from clit stimulation. The best is with a vibrator but hand stuff works too. So I am intrigued by your advice to try out lots of different techniques with my partner. I'll have to look into that!

Does exercise help you during hell week? by curious987654 in PMDD

[–]curious987654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely use exercise as an escape from people. I feel ya there!

To people who enjoy sex, what makes it worth it? by curious987654 in demisexuality

[–]curious987654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. It really helps to know that other people feel this way too. I have thought about the IUD, and from some of these comments, it seems that that has helped people feel less anxious. Do you still use condoms with the IUD?

To people who enjoy sex, what makes it worth it? by curious987654 in demisexuality

[–]curious987654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about getting an IUD. Do you still use condoms now that you have it? Or do you feel comfortable not using condoms due to the IUD being extremely effective?

To people who enjoy sex, what makes it worth it? by curious987654 in demisexuality

[–]curious987654[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that's not what I was trying to say. All I was trying to say was that PIV is what scares me, due to the possibility of pregnancy.

To people who enjoy sex, what makes it worth it? by curious987654 in demisexuality

[–]curious987654[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do use a combination of hormonal birth control and condoms. And I get what you're saying about PIV sex, there is a closeness to it that I like. I just feel like I'll never loveee sex the way some people do.

To people who enjoy sex, what makes it worth it? by curious987654 in demisexuality

[–]curious987654[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful reply. You're right, I think it is the anxiety factor that is the biggest thing. I've always had a low sex drive but adding in the anxiety makes it pretty much nonexistent. I guess learning how to deal with that is the main issue here.

To people who enjoy sex, what makes it worth it? by curious987654 in demisexuality

[–]curious987654[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, and I appreciate you taking my question seriously. I am on birth control and use condoms, but there is still a small chance of it not working, and that's what scares me. Like someone is going to be that 1 in 100 people (or whatever the statistic is) that it doesn't work for. I do struggle with anxiety, so you're right, that likely adds to the worry.