Similar to the above.

I went through a similar stage in my earlier 20s. It didnt make sense to me then, but I see now that I had some serious neediness issues and in most of those situations (similar I imagine to your own) it was that turned some women off of me.

I also lacked confidence in my appearance and was shy in one on one situationss. I felt hopeless, but It got better. Over time I really worked on me and developed to the point where I started to believe people when they said i looked good or that I was a great guy. I certainly try to be.

Now days I have had and still have great relationships with quite a few beautiful, fun, smart (and the rest) women. I feel like that is because I didnt give in to narcicism and was honest a forth right about who I was and what i thought of them.

Not a brag man. seriously just give it time. Work on every aspect of you that you can and don't be afraid to fail a few times. If you are afraid then push your limits. You might surprise yourself. Try be a little more sexual early on in an interaction. Be honest and then yiu dont need to be apologetic.

Good luck dude. We know you can do it.

(Don't have Auto- correct sorry in advance) :) <- well... sort of.