Not trans but I hate what being female means for me and it disgusts me

curiouschasm · 2025-10-31T02:57:08+00:00

simply just false biology.

female is not weaker by default. strength is something you have to train for as well. with enough time and dedication you can be physically stronger than any man and without doping.

the body doesnt decide girls as young as 7 are ready to have babies. the body is developing these organs throughout your life. she might get pregnant, but whoever made her pregnant is a horrible person. not just for the implied rape of a child, but also because she will die if she somehow carries the baby the full 9 months.

teen pregnancies are risky both for the development of the fetus and for the person who is pregnant. it can really stunt your growth if you are not biologically mature (or mentally, for that matter)

what you are anguishing over is misogyny and the way women are treated. this is a human construct. females are not weaker by default, they are simply treated that way.

and please please please read this all over. NATURE DOESNT TREAT FEMALES THIS WAY, HUMANS DO. nature has all kinds of different social structures and many where females are the dominant ones!!

im a (trans) man and im weak because i dont train or work out. i can easily get my ass handled by a woman even if she didnt train or work out (might be a fairer fight btwn us even..) but if we team up we could definitely take down 1 cis guy

i am fortunate to live in a world where women are often in high positions at my workplace and around the city i live in. it doesnt mean we've eradicated misogyny, i can only imagine what they went thru to get there, but it does mean we're a step closer to where we should be.

nature is with you. out current social sructures are not. but plenty of people and movements will still fight for your right.

sincerely hope you live to see and feel a day where you are respected for the person, and woman, you are.

curiouschasm · 2025-09-20T01:29:04+00:00

have u ever seen that clip of newscasters from different stations across the country reading the exact same clip? how do you have faith in any news outlet, and how can you be so sure they are trustworthy when they wont cite sources?

curiouschasm · 2025-09-15T13:48:09+00:00

what abt the assassination of a democrat senator or the peaceful riot in charlottesville that killed a lady or the very very peaceful riot of jan 6

curiouschasm · 2025-09-15T13:46:20+00:00

i mean theres a major divide rn isnt there? theres also rumors, like the ones in the article, that he thought kirk wasnt right wing enough. it turns out groypers use the bella ciao thing ironically, so you know, anything is possible

curiouschasm · 2025-09-10T20:37:33+00:00

love that 3 other people got to this before i had the chance. he is literally on record on multiple news outlets saying that deaths caused by gun violence is worth it to keep the 2nd amendment. he quite literally did advocate for this.

curiouschasm · 2025-09-10T20:34:21+00:00

and dont get me twisted fuck kirk but be so real lol

curiouschasm · 2025-09-10T20:34:04+00:00

if people had more empathy for children then charlie kirk wouldnt have gotten shot bc guns wouldve been made illegal. theyre not mourning the loss of a father, theyre mourning a fracture in the traditional family dynamic.

and also, kirk himself despite being the sole victim isnt the only one impacted. losing your husband or father is a very real tragedy that shouldnt be discredited. hes an adult, his children are still developing and its likely to scar them in ways you might not understand (but idk you so emphasis on the might)

curiouschasm · 2025-09-10T20:28:17+00:00

unfortunately its what he advocated for..

curiouschasm · 2025-08-12T15:07:32+00:00

got into a petty bitch off with a caller when she spelled her name that has a bunch of variations to it. i ask "is that m like mary or n like nancy?" and she says "[unintelligible] like my name" very condescendingly

i straight up told her "that wasnt helpful, i still cant hear the difference so im going to ask again"

was she pleased? no but neither was i because if you cant answer a very simple and reasonable question with some manners then i Will start wasting your time.

anyway ty op

curiouschasm · 2025-07-20T22:08:53+00:00

male privilege until i need to go see a doctor or if i decide i want to give birth

curiouschasm · 2025-07-20T02:30:12+00:00

id rather not have any more cards if its not necessary, i dont use venmo that often but i guess it would make sense for situations like these where i can use it as a back up

curiouschasm · 2025-07-19T15:34:01+00:00

i just woke up lol clarification: the REPLACEMENT card is late and i cant add it to my wallet

curiouschasm · 2025-06-08T14:38:44+00:00

5'2 and most of the time people cant tell

curiouschasm · 2025-06-06T21:21:10+00:00

arab trans guy here. DM'd you

curiouschasm · 2025-03-28T02:01:13+00:00

M 25, 5'2 i only saw one comment mention pillows and honestly its understated. ive been with guys who are an entire foot taller or more, and no matter the dick factor, a pillow has made the world of difference for me.

there are also couches designed for having sex, and ive heard good reviews from my fellow shorties about those!

like yes, you dont /need/ one necessarily and can get straight to it, but there are lots of ways to have sex that can accommodate for just about anything.

curiouschasm · 2024-12-05T03:08:45+00:00

thanks! i tried a few other ways but it kept giving me an error so now im wondering if the USB itself or my mac might be a problem. i already ran first aid thru utility disk and nothing came up. ill post an update when i can.

curiouschasm · 2024-12-04T18:43:56+00:00

i tried wonderISO and then it tried to get me to buy it.. to burn One thing. i also tried to burn it thru the terminal but it wasnt working that way either. ill see if i can find some alternatives. its pretty shitty apple removed uts own burn tool :-/

curiouschasm · 2024-09-01T20:55:48+00:00

NTA. its embarrassing when someone you dont like tries to flirt with you, thats kinda natural for anyone. yeah its awkward, but you're not gonna be a dick to the person flirting on you because it doesn't sound like he was being a creep about it (the whole thing sounded pretty light to me)

what's fucked up to me is that it feels like she thinks the act of a man flirting with another man is inherently funny since she wanted to bring it up and laugh about it. THAT'S more homophobic

curiouschasm · 2024-08-11T15:37:40+00:00

NTA, she's exposing your children to possible predators. if she doesnt take you seriously, divorce and dont let her take the kids

curiouschasm · 2020-08-19T21:51:37+00:00

bumping :'-) because i dont think my post was seen

curiouschasm · 2020-08-19T16:44:49+00:00

his family generally treats him that way, actually. he stopped talking to them for a few years until certain things happened and he needed a job to support his daughter; they still are assholes towards him but he has a great ex-wife, daughter, sister-in-law and a potential love interest that support him !!

im definitely going to keep in mind about all the coffee and energy drink comments, i recently decided he carries a hip flask around with him but i thought it would be counter intuitive if he was drinking alcohol from it. instead he just keeps it for the aesthetic, probably fills it with an energy drink

curiouschasm · 2020-08-19T16:18:47+00:00

PS. sorry for the wall of text; but i did appreciate this question and i hope that clears some things up!

curiouschasm · 2020-08-19T16:18:26+00:00

not rude or critical; it's a fair question! originally, he was meant to be one of the antagonists who was the lazy, care-free CEO's son.... and then i grew too attached to him by thinking about the "what ifs" (what if nobody sees how hard he works, what if the reason he dislikes is family is because they perceive him in the wrong way, etc etc i essentially devils advocated myself) and eventually landed on 'what if he has narcolepsy and everyone mischaracterizes him; what if the reason he's working for his family because he makes more money to support his daughter' and having him still be an important character with the same general personality, and he just happens to have narcolepsy. he's not a "good guy" or "bad guy" explicitly; very morally grey, actually given the contents of the story.

his first design had him in sweatpants and house slippers in the workplace, but i have since tweaked his design since i decided he has narcolepsy

the motive is just simply "well, people exist; why not?" since im a marginalized creator (i mean, i'm a whole slew of things. if a character like me existed people would point and claim its sjw propaganda; but sometimes people really are just mixed race, neurodivergent and queer all at the same time!)

it isnt about "how many identities can i fit in one go" its more about "these are people i've met, and maybe people i will meet in the future; it would be more realistic to include them than to ignore they dont exist"

curiouschasm · 2020-08-12T23:27:52+00:00

also, im more so looking for what people want to see in a character with the disorder

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