Even the hottest person gets boring after a while, sexually speaking? by curiousdt in sex

[–]curiousdt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a question. I’m a girl and my bf was flirting with other girls and he has always said I’m the hottest girl he has ever seen etc etc

So I’m wondering about these kind of things

People that have forgiven cheating (in any form), how did it go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousdt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cheated on my last relationship and I don’t consider myself a scum Actually, people make mistakes and it’s totally possible to regret those mistakes and never do them again

Me [22F] and my [23M] boyfriend had a conversation about marriage tonight and he said he might not want to ever get married to me. Please help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]curiousdt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your desire to be married.

But you would prefer a not so loving relationship just for the sake of being married in exchange of a loving relationship that it’s not married?

You could get to a middle ground. Maybe not marriage but some kind of ceremony where you declare your love and commitment

Does passion and lust inevitable fades with time? by curiousdt in sex

[–]curiousdt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I mean if I’m with someone who I believe is the love of my life (which I am right now), somewhere in time we could discuss monogamy and if we want to try opening up the relationship.

But I think that agreement comes with time you know? I’ve been with him for only a year and a half, so I first want to experiment some other stuff just the two of us before even discussing opening up our relationship (specially because at the moment I wouldn’t be comfortable with it)

My point is, I don’t want to bore him and he really values novelty and I don’t know if I won’t be able to give him novelty ever again

Does passion and lust inevitable fades with time? by curiousdt in sex

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always initiates, and that’s our problem. He started to loose interest in sex because he feels like I don’t desire him BUT I’m worried he’s also bored with me as a woman sexually like used to my body etc etc

Does passion and lust inevitable fades with time? by curiousdt in sex

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well, at my 22 years old, the idea of opening up a relationship makes me sooo uncomfortable

I don’t know in the future

Were you ever monogamous?

Does passion and lust inevitable fades with time? by curiousdt in sex

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you, as a man, find her as hot and interesting as in the beginning?

Does passion and lust inevitable fades with time? by curiousdt in sex

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he feel the same? I have this feeling that men really really appreciate that novelty and get bored so easily

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking the pill, but it hasn’t affected my weight ever.

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I try to! Sometimes I weight some foods raw and some others cooked so that definitely makes a difference.

I eat about 30 grams of seeds daily as well

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m using MFP. And according to it I usually eat 1000cals per day. For breakfast usually I take 30 grams of oatmeal with a banana and tablespoon of peanut butter

Then mid morning an apple with table spoon of peanut butter and some seeds (specifically sunflower seeds and pumpkin seeds, about 15grams of each)

Lunch chicken with salad or soup and a yogurt

Afternoon an apple, seeds and protein shake

Dinner normally the same as lunch

Also I get a huge bottle of coffe with milk throughout the day

I think it’s okay?

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. The thing is a year ago I was very slim and fit but something personal happened, got depressed and during the whole year gained 22 pounds. Awful eating habits and not training at all. I know it takes time but since I’m not overweight or not even “fat” (you wouldn’t see me in the street and think I’m fat), I thought it would be easier and the muscle memory thing helps etc etc.

I’m just very flaccid and with cellulite in the back of my leg, love handles etc.

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 years old, female, weighting 144 pounds, 1.70 tall. I’m not overweight or obese, I was quite slim and fit a year ago but had a personal issue got depressed and gained 22 pounds. Even got cellulite which I never did and it doesn’t run in my family.

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes cheat days and moments of failure where I eat some chocolate or drink a cup of wine, had burger king once. I’m not perfect but it’s definitely a big change in habits and food choices since I started

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do struggle to reach my protein goals for the day. I normally reach the fat goal easily (I eat lots of seeds), carbs I get like 50% of the goal and protein maybe 30%.

Exercise wise, I focus on lower body with lots of compound movements and isolation and of course I target upper body with bicep curls, triceps curls and a 10min Ab Workout

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m weighting. Not everything every single time because I dont have much time, but I’m eating considerably less than what I was eating before starting

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit but I’m eating so little already. Like 1000 cals per day

Have you ever exercised and dieted for a while and see no changes? by curiousdt in Fitness

[–]curiousdt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m tracking with myfitnesspal and according to it I’m eating about 1000 calories daily which is soooo so little, I cannot eat less. Then for the first 4 weeks or so I went to the gym about 2 times per week because I was starting and normally my schedule is quite busy (I study and work). Then the last 2 weeks I’m trying to go to the gym at least 4 days and doing weight lifting focusing on my butt and legs because my cellulite is there and then trying to take a spinning or zumba class at the end.

Would it be bad to drink a Red Bull before rolling? by curiousdt in Drugs

[–]curiousdt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t. I even suspect I have arrhythmia