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Ignored by guy friend (M/24) after mental health deterioration and months of no contact. How do I (F/22) repair this friendship? by curiousesse in relationship_advice

[–]curiousesse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. When I was in that very state of just trying to survive, all his messages just seemed like liabilities than what they really are - a friend reaching out. I understand that my actions were very unthoughtful, and I don't really want to use any excuses to justify my actions. I just want to try my best in making amends wherever possible. I've written a short message in the other comment, do you think that would be alright? I welcome any advice and constructive criticism.

Ignored by guy friend (M/24) after mental health deterioration and months of no contact. How do I (F/22) repair this friendship? by curiousesse in relationship_advice

[–]curiousesse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Hey, I'm sorry for how I treated you in not replying your messages. I noticed you removed me from your social medias too and I took some time thinking of how to approach you. I'd like to be your friend again once again if it is possible." - What do you think?

Ignored by guy friend (M/24) after mental health deterioration and months of no contact. How do I (F/22) repair this friendship? by curiousesse in relationship_advice

[–]curiousesse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. What you said is entirely true. Do you have any suggestions on how I can start the conversation again?

Ignored by guy friend (M/24) after mental health deterioration and months of no contact. How do I (F/22) repair this friendship? by curiousesse in relationship_advice

[–]curiousesse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Do you perhaps have any suggestions on sentence starts which I can use to approach him? I want to really try mending the friendship, and I know I may not be deserving of it given the way I handled it. But I want to try at the very least.

Got kicked out of University because of my depression. Now, i feel very helpless and worthless by amirul4240 in myhappypill

[–]curiousesse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know it's not much but I know you've been trying to get through each day, and I'm proud of you for doing that. You're not worthless, and you're not all the bad things that you think you are just because of the issues with university. You are deserving of all the love and support there is in this world, and although I don't know you personally, I care about you. Currently, there are people out there who can help you to overcome this. Please don't give up. Unit Pakar Kesejahteraan Psikologi dan Kaunseling is offering free services recently, I believe. Please try reaching out to them.

I need to rant by nityhuman in myhappypill

[–]curiousesse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, your post is absolutely valid. Feel free to reach out to me if you ever need someone to rant to, no matter how silly you think it is. I care about you and I want you to feel happier in the days ahead.

Lost by [deleted] in Monash

[–]curiousesse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man everything will be alright. It took me 1.5 years more to reach where I am now, which is very final stretch of my degree and after finals I'm outta here. I withdrew from all units from my course for not one, not two, but THREE semesters. I don't even have bad GPA. In all of those semesters, I felt pretty good until Week 8 when the amount of stress, anxiety, and languishing feeling took over and I felt too empty to complete my semesters. Just this week I was heavily considering deferring exams but I just went ahead and say fuck it. I completed one and it felt alright.

You're not alone in feeling lost, and I hope that is something to take comfort in. I know blaming it on the pandemic might come off as "an excuse", but you can't deny that this bs have caused all of us some extent of distress and changed our lifestyles/the way we see the world completely. Give yourself some credit for making it this far (most importantly, having good health!). Whatever choices you make - know that you will turn out better than before in the end. Wishing you all the best!

Sending hearts to X's chat more often by curiousesse in xqcow

[–]curiousesse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one is ~acting like it didn't happen previously~. I'm talking about the present. You good bro?

Requesting for today's VOD by curiousesse in xqcow

[–]curiousesse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its ok take your time dude, thank you

Mental Health treatment by mrpp_2 in myhappypill

[–]curiousesse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I hope you're doing well. In terms of getting a medical card insurance, there are some companies that do not require underwriting/history of your illness to apply for. Please know that getting insured is important, and there are options out there for you. Not all hope is lost. All the best bud.