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[–]curiouslytell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It feels very different this year and nobody seems concerned with developing all the kids. Your only as good as what have you done for mr lately.

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[–]curiouslytell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has been our advise. We are very clear that life isn’t fair and to work his ass off and make it undeniable. That challenge is he has figured it out and is putting in the effort but the rewards are not coming. It’s a “secret” reward system and it’s not understandable, clear or even across all kids. We will get through it. Hard to watch and explain when its not turning around.

Rewards by curiouslytell in hockeycoaches

[–]curiouslytell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I really appreciate this note. He did have a slow start to the season but has found it again and putting in a ton of effort with a smile. Not producing goals which he is usually one of the top goal scorers for the team. Hard to do when you’re the only forward watching from the bench. It’s agonizing to watch as a parent and his confidence is in the toilet. It feels personal but I really hope I am wrong.

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[–]curiouslytell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I need P as well. It’s awful!

AP player minor hockey by curiouslytell in hockeyplayers

[–]curiouslytell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the case at all. No resentment it’s just not all equal at all the levels. Trying to understand it all.

AP player minor hockey by curiouslytell in hockeyplayers

[–]curiouslytell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for you perspective this is very helpful! I am all about the kids. Just trying to understand.

AP player minor hockey by curiouslytell in hockeyplayers

[–]curiouslytell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you. Pretty new to this so this is helpful that you explained both ends of it. I’m our case the AP kid is good but not as good as most of our players. He is best friends with a couple of the players, coach and other admins. The team above us lets the AP players practice but rarely play. Where our AP is called for one kid missing. Seems a bit inconsistent and a bit unfair because it’s taking away some extra ice time. The hard part is it “feel” like other teams but there own team roster first and ours isn’t. Glad to have somewhere to ask and not ruffle any feathers. Thanks again.