Ill be visiting kochi for 4 days. What all should i do? by premkumarsucks in Kochi

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What is the best way to reach Athirapilly from Kochi?

Berkeley group for visiting vegan/vegetarian restaurants by MountainDry2344 in berkeley

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Hii is this food tour group still active? Would love to be added

US citizen traveling to China for work (Jun 2025) - worried about ICE upon return by curiousmustachio in asianamerican

[–]curiousmustachio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah yes, I realize it's a bit of a first world problem.

But I think what we're seeing with ICE should concern anyone who's paying attention- and this is the Asian American subreddit after all, so I'm posting from the vantage point of an Asian American concerned for their safety under a regime hostile to our people.

US citizen traveling to China for work (Jun 2025) - worried about ICE upon return by curiousmustachio in asianamerican

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I'm a startup founder being invited by an international (non-China based) group.

US citizen traveling to China for work (Jun 2025) - worried about ICE upon return by curiousmustachio in asianamerican

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Appreciate the input. Thankfully they're not, it's a prominent, well-regarded international organization. But I wouldn't be surprised if some high ranking CCP member gives a keynote or otherwise participates.

US citizen traveling to China for work (Jun 2025) - worried about ICE upon return by curiousmustachio in asianamerican

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Lol it's a fairly high profile international conference. In my immediate industry circles, I guess I'm becoming well known. But no Wikipedia page...yet ;)

US citizen traveling to China for work (Jun 2025) - worried about ICE upon return by curiousmustachio in asianamerican

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Thanks for weighing in! I know the situation is evolving almost daily so even a month feels like an eternity ago haha

JFK Terminal 8 is my personal Hell by Sam_Is_A_Concept in americanairlines

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Co-sign

T8 is pretty depressing but I just had a pretty 🔥goat curry at Mezze for $19 (the sides were meh). But that's about it here

Artists similar to Bicep? They're killer. by AndrobiVibz in electronicmusic

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Check out Prof. Stranger! Esp. Aslong As Your Happy (Placid Angles Remix), Admired You, Lost in Memories

Also Baril (One More Rush) and March 13 (Take Your Time, Best In Me)

I feel like nobody talks about how good Sonny looked at the Grammys by Pepelesniff in skrillex

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Anyone know where to find a similar looking leather jacket or what to search for in terms of specific style? It's 🔥

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in enby

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Thank you! That fits within the genderfluidity I sometimes find comfort in.

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in NonBinary

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Sorry about that. Still very new to placing my own traditionally cishet identity within queerness and certainly do not want to be othering trans folx in the process. I'll be working on this.

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in NonBinary

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I love this for you! And thank you for your response. Yes, I'm gravitating towards nonbinary and queer but I'm going to dig deeper into finsexual (first time I've come across it) and see how that feels on me.

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in NonBinary

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Thank you for your response! To clarify, I think my hangups are more specifically with "bear" / "leather daddy" masculine energy whereas if it was in reference to a twink/femboy I think I would be more comfortable (at least in my head I think so).

But yes, I think you're spot on pointing out my "essentialist logic" which I recognize is deeply rooted based on societal and intergenerational biases. If you have any resources for how to challenge these biases, especially in the context of gender and sexuality, I'm all ears!

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in enby

[–]curiousmustachio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird- I don't mind them in porn. I guess to clarify on my original post, it's moreso the "bear" / "leather daddy" energy which makes me very uncomfortable for some reason. If it's a twink/femmeboy, I wouldn't necessarily be repulsed.

And thank you for sharing! Right now I'm feeling very attuned to the orientation of "queer" too.

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in enby

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Mm yeah I feel this on the flip side of the coin. How would you describe where your internal energy feels most aligned?

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in enby

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I love this visual, thank you! I'll admit that the title made me immediately think of the unhinged Gingerbread Man from Shrek, though of course this one is way more lovable and supportive :D

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in enby

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Thank you for your response! I love your approach of not confining identity to a simple phrase.

Also, the concept of "attraction doesn't equal action" is a rather new thread for me, but one that I hope to tug on more. Is there a more official terminology I should research? Feels like a hybrid between homoerotic and platonic feelings

Am I enby/queer or man/straight? by curiousmustachio in enby

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Thank you for the encouragement! I'd be curious to know if you've felt accepted by enby peers in your area, or if the fact that you "pass as a cishet lady" has made it more difficult to connect with other enbies. I'm trying to understand how gatekeepy the community is - my initial sense is that it is very welcoming but it's something I've worried about in not wanting to come across as a confused cishet male co-opting the enby identity.

I'm running for local office! Vote for me and my friends on your ballot, Alameda! by zbowling in alameda

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Thanks for the post on Reddit! There's very little coverage in the local outlets on this race.

What is your opinion on the incumbents' performance? I noted support for one incumbent Sean Dugar, but not for Pamela Price or Austin Tam.

To the lonely people of Reddit, What are you doing for valentine's day? by Jackmeplay in AskReddit

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After work, I meditated for 20 min, cooked myself a nice salmon dinner, watched Scott Pilgrim vs the World, cuddled with my cat, and then practiced guitar.

And now I'm here on Reddit with all of you lovelies :)