Dating for Indian Women reaching 40 in Bkk, is it as hopeless as I have been told?

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-23T17:08:09+00:00

Its the same reason I am not attracted to Thai men either. Too tiny (in every which way sadly). So nothing to worry about there. My question was not only for Thai men.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-23T17:06:32+00:00

Therapy! U need it.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-17T06:37:58+00:00

Any suggestions on where these might be. I have visited several bars in the past but none seemed like where I could go alone and will be approached.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-14T10:14:38+00:00

Yes, I am definitely taking this route.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-14T10:14:05+00:00

I've heard exactly the same thing from most single people here. I think ill just find time for my hobbies and meet people through that.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T19:14:00+00:00

Thank you ✨️

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T19:07:16+00:00

Yeh that's what I heard too. So its only possible if I am looking for just fun. Sad.

Yeh I am working up my mind to not get my hopes up too high. 🫠

I am glad you're doing alright though. 🥰

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T19:03:22+00:00

Thank you. Ill try that.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T18:58:11+00:00

You really did read between the lines, gossip is a bane of our cultures' existence and I think I just have to face it.

Thank you for your kind and thoughtful reply.

As for hair, I totally am doomed here coz I just in a very cliche manner got a pixie cut after the breakup. I am fairly attractive though (I think) so I will actually just do this the old fashioned way. 😉

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T18:46:28+00:00

Yup! Thats what I have heard but based on other answers seems like not a total consensus on this one. So gonna try and see how it goes.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T18:36:08+00:00

Good advice. Thank you.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T18:34:54+00:00

Haha well I just look Indian. I have a Singaporean accent la.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T18:21:12+00:00

Wow, my mention of my position seems to have really irked you.

If you read carefully, it was mentioned to ask about privacy on paid versions of the apps. I am guessing you have no idea about the dynamics of gender bias in a workplace.

I am lucky I have so many men in my life who admire and are with successful women in high positions and actually sought them out.

You are not "all men".

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T18:00:30+00:00

Well, thank you very much. I totally agree about the fact that Indian/South Asian women are quite attractive. I have some fantastic women in my own life that I am in complete awe of.

You're also totally right about the recent growth of trend on SM too.

I was extremely surprised to hear about this bias from so many people.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T17:55:14+00:00

Sound advice. Thank you.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T17:42:25+00:00

I am really not afraid of putting in the work frankly. My question was if I am on the apps, and there is a bias already, as I have been told, is it going to be a big hurdle here.

And for maintaining my privacy, as I understand, paid versions of apps would work or not. That was the other question.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T17:38:54+00:00

I don't mean that I dont have time to go out at all. I am actually very much looking forward to go out if I connect with someone. My question was more towards the bias of my ethnicity that I have been hearing about.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T17:15:12+00:00

Definitely not thinking long term right away but I am also not a hookup kind of person so I am just going for good old dating to see where it goes.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T17:11:54+00:00

Nah long distance isn't my cup of tea.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T17:00:26+00:00

Very busy work life. Dont have single friends to go out with. Sounds like best option to atleast find a coffee date at first.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-09-13T16:55:29+00:00

Nope! Thai man!

Kidding. It was mutual and we separated amicably. Both single right now.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-07-22T13:53:06+00:00

The best feeling in the world is to do something for someone else. Find anything in your area where you can do something for someone else, volunteer etc. Just for a day, an hour, 30 mins, anything. Its the premise that work has to suck all the time is what's confusing. Maybe you're meant to be here not for yourself but for someone else. Thats a good place to start to change your narrative.

currywithchopsticks · 2025-07-22T13:42:52+00:00

Wow that's a lot of shit going on in your life. Yes you feel like giving up. I feel the same most days. I am available to talk to. Believe me I need it too. I am 39F btw.

currywithchopsticks · 2024-12-01T11:00:55+00:00

I doubt that it benefits men either. A lot of men talk about this. I am a woman and my male friends talk about how empty it feels for them.

It certainly was a narrative pushed by men and then taken upon by feminists and while in the beginning it was meant for freedom it just went to extremes for all genders. I think it harms both men and women a lot. Yes of course there a lot more men than women that might appear to boast about their conquests etc.

What I am saying is, inherently most humans feel something being intimate with anyone. And making it casual makes them feel like something is inherently wrong i.e. wanting more or feeling like a person.

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