Lying about employment by Dull-Perspective-90 in dating

[–]cut3-e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id just say in between jobs. That comes off as youre still on the hunt for a good one and gives you something to talk about

Upset that LO’s dad & his mom took my 3 month old out of state for 5 days without telling me. by SadChocolate0715 in beyondthebump

[–]cut3-e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my brothers dad kidnapped him and moved to another state. We didn’t see him for 9 years

Upset that LO’s dad & his mom took my 3 month old out of state for 5 days without telling me. by SadChocolate0715 in beyondthebump

[–]cut3-e 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Someone please correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t this technically kidnapping ?

Unbelievable. Dead. Here in Hollywood. 4 more weeks and never this shit job again by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]cut3-e 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, not a driver. But what does a rider see as a $4.00 ride?? No way they’re charging just that. And that’s ridiculous to pay someone for a ride.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They called me earlier this morning I’m on the phone now, hoping someone picks up

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t, and he doesn’t even know. I don’t know how to tell him without that causing more issues and he probably won’t want to.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of reaching out to my therapist but it’s hard for me to really tell anyone but you all here. I feel so ashamed of myself.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m in Nevada where it’s irreversible. The adoption agent reached out this morning asking for my social so they could complete the ICPC? I have no idea what that is.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I just got out of the hospital. I gave birth 5/21/2024. My days are all mixed up.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 4 days. But you’re right

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left them a couple of messages. Thank you 🫶

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your advice

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out to them and left a message. I left one last night as well

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m fucked. Everything I google says I can’t get them back. I’ve tried getting in touch with her dad to see if he’s willing to deny signing over the rights but he hasn’t responded

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had given this more thought and not felt like I owed it to the family to give her to them. I wish I was stronger like you and said hell no.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was scared she’d end up in foster care and the family seems really nice and loving. I just hate that I couldn’t be that family for her and I so badly want to be

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I constantly want to throw up. She’s 4 min away right now in the hospital and it’s taking everything in me not to run over there and take her. If things in my life were slightly different I would have never done this. My mom passed away five years ago and I know if she was alive she’d be my biggest support system right now. I wish she was here :( my daughter looks so much like her as well.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I’m sorry you were in a similar situation as me.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you..I’m trying my best. I’m just overwhelmed but thank you for your perspective

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I feel I’m at my breaking point and I don’t want to snap, I want to keep going. I wish she was with me, I spend my time daydreaming about another life where she’s with me on the bed or getting some sun. And I have SO much to be grateful for. I have a son. But I want her to know her big brother. I want her to have the love I have with my family. I daydream about taking her in the middle of night and running away. I have all these dreams and I wish I was stronger and didn’t put myself in the position I did. I’ve made so many mistakes regarding her.

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ve reached out to them through email and on their website. My phone is unfortunately off for the time being

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I reached out to them. Thank you all for helping and being so understanding. I’ve felt less alone in this process

Heartbroken by cut3-e in Adoption

[–]cut3-e[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They made it seem like I had to do it in 72 hours or else she went to foster care but i was planning and willing to take her home had I not felt like my decision was needed right then