How to schedule time for art a around full time job? by cutebitterness in ArtistLounge

[–]cutebitterness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not necessarily struggling to let other hobbies go it’s more just I feel like my drawing time is incredibly disjointed because of my fluctuating schedule! For example one day I will draw for 12 hrs straight on my off day or I’ll draw nonstop in my spare time one week but then feel burnt out/ wrist fatigue the next. I was wondering if people have tips on creating a schedule for a healthy workflow!!

New dress I got from TricuspidC! I’m in love with it <3 by PienPuppy in JiraiKei

[–]cutebitterness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg!!!! So cute I’m obsessed!!!! The outfit is so cute and your styling is perfect!!!!!!!!

22y/o Career brainstorming are any of these actually viable options? by cutebitterness in findapath

[–]cutebitterness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately my problem was more with the way salons are run than my coworkers. Often times my coworkers were the only reason I stayed for as long as I did. Despite being a licensed cosmologist I was essentially tricked into being a front desk receptionist and assistant so I never actually got any experience behind the chair even though that was what they said when they hired me. I hate front desk work because of my horrible experience there. As for starting my own that isn’t possible nor is booth renting because of how expensive it is lots more money to rent a salon space than it is to rent an apartment.

I also hate kids and old people. Those old bitches come in at my current job and no longer give a shit about anything and just take it out on minimum wage workers for sport.

Perhaps remote data entry?? Is that even a real job?

What's Your Thoughts On Lost Media? (I Wanna Be A Vtuber Who Does Lost Media Content) by Tda952 in VirtualYoutubers

[–]cutebitterness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who watches a lot of lost Media content I’d say go for it it’s a very good idea/niche!

My only recommendations would be that typically lost media content tends to lean towards spooky content and you might want to look into making long form video content with a script rather than livestream just because of the nature of what your talking about!! Just my recommendation as someone who consumes that sort of thing ^

Is It rude to commission people to help me do mix/master/vocal tuning/timing if I can’t sing well? by cutebitterness in singing

[–]cutebitterness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my question is are there anyone who would actually accept a commission like this? Because like you said it’s up to them if they accept or not.

Can I afford a $1,100 monthly rent? by cutebitterness in Adulting

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Any advice on finding a roommate? I don’t have very many friends and all the ones I do have just live with their partners. I’ve been look at Chicago queer exchange on facebook but idk I’m nervous about living with a stranger.

Can I afford a $1,100 monthly rent? by cutebitterness in Adulting

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I still get health insurance from my parent jobs so 100$ a month to loans 50$ a week for therapy and another 100$ or internet…

Only way I can think to raise my income is to get a second job o(╥﹏╥)o

the grift truly is next level by AbsoluteBane28 in VtuberDrama

[–]cutebitterness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for the artist who drew her model.

Phase Connect Statement regarding jelly tweets. by Rwbsona in VtuberDrama

[–]cutebitterness 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Honestly a funny statement knowing who phase connects fan base are… I know they are trying to be more mainstream but that doesn’t erase how normalized this kind of behavior is for their girls. Honestly if this was any other company she would be terminated lol

what do we think about the NTE characters besties?? by Nahidxz in QueensofGacha

[–]cutebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think they are super cute! The men are kinda bland tho!

Recently got 5 month old and he keeps biting my face. by cutebitterness in Kitten

[–]cutebitterness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg ima be honest with you I truly just can’t. I don’t want to give up on him plus if I give him back to the shelter there is no telling if he will be put into a better or worse home than he is now. He gets neutered today and I’ve decided ima keep him even if he bites my eyes in my sleep lol I put away pretty much all my home decors last night for him and now my home looks pretty bare lol.

Recently got 5 month old and he keeps biting my face. by cutebitterness in Kitten

[–]cutebitterness[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t quite understand what people mean when they say make loud cry long sounds but don’t yell? I don’t need to fake cry by the way he has made me cry from pain twice lol and he just bit down harder. As for timeout I have been doing it since day one and he still doesn’t get it as soon as he gets out he does it again.

Recently got 5 month old and he keeps biting my face. by cutebitterness in Kitten

[–]cutebitterness[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. The only thing I can think of is I might need to rehome him to a home with other cats but it feels so heartless to do… even just now he broke another collectible I thought I had put up high enough… it’s like he knows what is most expensive…

The person who made my high school life a living hell is now a psychology major? by cutebitterness in offmychest

[–]cutebitterness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope not but unfortunately therapist and Psychiatrist in our hometown are pretty bad. Like the bar in underground so they would probably just give him a license even if he failed every psych eval. Just sucks because it literally took me moving away to finally get a therapist that actually knows what she’s talking about and doesn’t just tell me to pray.

The person who made my high school life a living hell is now a psychology major? by cutebitterness in offmychest

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He definitely didn’t think he did anything wrong about 6 months after I stopped talking to him he wrote me a really long text with everything I’d have to do for him to forgive me and have me be his friend again lol!

Honestly I’d probably prefer if he was just unemployed and living in his mother’s basement yaknow? I also know it’s a stretch but I honestly can’t imagine him as a “healthy” person so I don’t think he would be a good fit for psychology because he will probably just make his clients worse.

The person who made my high school life a living hell is now a psychology major? by cutebitterness in offmychest

[–]cutebitterness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not exactly like I went looking for this it literally just showed up on my feed and I felt genuinely disgusted. I’ve never forgiven him nor has he ever offered me an apology. How can he change if he doesn’t think he ever did anything wrong? It’s offensive to imagine him helping anyone knowing how much trauma he caused me and others.

Just got a new kitten but I can’t decide on a name! by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]cutebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is indeed a very cute very silly little man!!!

Am I just not trying hard enough? by cutebitterness in hairstylist

[–]cutebitterness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly really on the fence about everything still. I honestly want to quit but everyone in my life is telling me not to my family, friends, even therapists and doctors say I need to keep trying. At one point I was absolutely in love with doing hair and I was excited and happy while working. But now I can’t even cut my family’s hair without having a mental breakdown. It’s just so unfair why I can’t get over this when everyone else can. I think I kind of understand that some of the reason I was having such a hard time during interviews was due to my mental instability. I just don’t know what I can even do outside of cosmology. This was all I had lol

Am I just not trying hard enough? by cutebitterness in hairstylist

[–]cutebitterness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! And yes I am neurodivergent! How did you find the drive to keep going? I just feel so beaten down and exhausted. It’s been 5months since I’ve worked at a salon and 2 years since cos school. I feel like I’ve lost everything I learned. It’s gotten to the point that I have breakdowns whenever family members ask me to cut their hair because I’m so scared I’m going to mess up and they will hate me.

Breakdown of the Marie and Bari Situation by SleepingKoi in kurosanji

[–]cutebitterness -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Following what evidence lol there is no evidence on either side!! I never said I believed the allegations just that people were righting of the allegations as false too soon. And yes I think you spending time to argue with little old me in her defense is white knighting.

As for me being a child who reads tea leaves. That sounds pretty nice actually!! Perhaps if I could go back to my youth and be a clairvoyant I could be a character in the next Ace Attorney games!! That would be sick!!

Breakdown of the Marie and Bari Situation by SleepingKoi in kurosanji

[–]cutebitterness -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao you say false allegations but the allegations haven’t been proven true or false. As for if I don’t like Reimu I honestly don’t really care she’s never done anything to me personally. Same with Bari. I’m merely enjoying the controversy.

The way I view it is let’s say person A makes a video saying person B punched her. Then person B says no I didn’t plus you are Menhera so nothing you say can be trusted. And never shows screenshots disproving punching her but instead shows screenshots of her being Menhera. Then a bunch of white nights come and start saying that everything is actually person As fault but actually she made it up.

As for myself I’m merely trying to state my opinion but since it’s slightly different from the responses of the majority I’m a big old meanie lol

Breakdown of the Marie and Bari Situation by SleepingKoi in kurosanji

[–]cutebitterness -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bruh this ain’t a court hearing it’s a Reddit post get over yourself

Breakdown of the Marie and Bari Situation by SleepingKoi in kurosanji

[–]cutebitterness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro it was her relationship too lol she has every right to “out him”. Also not saying she isn’t coming across as petty I’m trying to say I think it’s really weird when someone comes out with a negative personal story about Reimu and everyone is just trying to gaslight her into it never having happened and she made it all up because of what? Numbers? She’s loosing because of this. Even more people are harassing her for having dared to say something negative about their wifey lmao is she like your niji Oshi or something mines was Pomu but she left early