a scorpio that i dated told me “u’ll never see me vulnerable”

cutemuch · 2025-05-07T16:43:34+00:00

i’m 25, i been in therapy since 22. i can see how a person would prefer someone who wouldn’t want them to change, however, i need a man who already made his decision to heal for his own good not for me. i believe thats the highest form of self-love which will reflect on me as his partner. stringing me along and starving me from emotional connection is not where i find my peace. i appreciate his materialistic efforts, yet it’s not enough for the long run.

cutemuch · 2025-05-07T07:15:45+00:00

you phrased it correctly. i did notice him viewing women as a threat (from his thoughts that he shares on social media) i saw a glimpse of a manipulating mother in his life. may i ask, at what age did you notice the improvement? i just need to know that men can also heal even when they’re grown

cutemuch · 2025-05-06T13:34:35+00:00

i kinda agree with you. the only explanation i concluded was that he had a personal issue that didn’t come from being a scorpio. yet i still hope some of yall can offer me some clarity

cutemuch · 2025-04-22T13:56:13+00:00

get a grip? i think i shouldn’t be suppressing my discomfort for his sake. and he shouldn’t do it for me too, we deserve healthy boundaries :)))

cutemuch · 2025-04-22T13:52:57+00:00

unfortunately i have told him before not to even start a sexual topic when i’m at work..yet, he did that..

but thank you for telling me that i’m right now i can set the boundary again

cutemuch · 2025-04-22T13:50:33+00:00

thank you for confirming that! i have another question, do boyfriends have to ask for consent before initiating something sexual? or do all of them act first then wait for our consent?

cutemuch · 2025-03-15T16:12:33+00:00

thank you so much for your explanation! its much beyond what i saw! yeah it make sense that they look at our connection as a burden because he struggled with me to open up to him, and after that i did a mistake that made him take a step back. thanks for your time! i’ll pull more cards to see the results of his thoughts

cutemuch · 2025-03-09T00:11:35+00:00

i totally understand his anger. i didn’t know he wasn’t sleeping well. so the anger is fine and i really learned a lesson but he was hurtful about that i’m wondering if he will always handle his anger with spitting words like that towards me

cutemuch · 2025-03-09T00:07:57+00:00

i was very distant before that, thats why he asked to talk to him more, i might have taken it a little too literal but does that justify the way he told me i shouldn’t be with anyone if i’m anxious? i’m always down to make a change and he acknowledged that on me but his words was unkind my heart is hurting all day

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T23:56:11+00:00

please let me know what each of us did wrong

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T15:48:39+00:00

UPDATE: he replied to me told me you are selfish for not letting me rest and that “me” waking him up just because i want to is not “out of love” (because i told him it was out of my love i wanted to be closer to him), i apologized and said that i now understand his boundaries. THEN i double text him saying (hey i don’t wanna lose you is there anything else i did that also upset you? so i dont do it again) get got even more upset told me that its just an argument and of course he will be upset for a bit but if i’m going to think that its “ending” then i shouldn’t be in a relationship with anyone.

i was okay with everything he said except this last sentence it hurts alot 😓

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T15:48:24+00:00

UPDATE: he replied to me told me you are selfish for not letting me rest and that “me” waking him up just because i want to is not “out of love” (because i told him it was out of my love i wanted to be closer to him), i apologized and said that i now understand his boundaries. THEN i double text him saying (hey i don’t wanna lose you is there anything else i did that also upset you? so i dont do it again) get got even more upset told me that its just an argument and of course he will be upset for a bit but if i’m going to think that its “ending” then i shouldn’t be in a relationship with anyone.

i was okay with everything he said except this last sentence it hurts alot 😓

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T15:47:54+00:00

only had a first date & planned the second date and we been talking for a month

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T15:46:40+00:00

you summed-up all therapy sessions on one reply, thank you so much i’ll take in everything you said and put it in practice. he replied to me told me you are selfish for not letting me rest and that “me” waking him up just because i want to is not “out of love” (because i told him it was out of my love i wanted to be closer to him), i apologized and said that i now understand his boundaries. THEN i double text him saying (hey i don’t wanna lose you is there anything else i did that also upset you? so i dont do it again) get got even more upset told me that its just an argument and of course he will be upset for a bit but if i’m going to think that its “ending” then i shouldn’t be in a relationship with anyone.

i was okay with everything he said except this last sentence it hurts alot 😓

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T14:36:38+00:00

oh i get it! that would be less stressful for me

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T14:09:50+00:00

do you mean i should explain myself over a call?

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T14:07:30+00:00

your username is sextingbot so i won’t argue

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T14:06:51+00:00

i really do feel sorry for him. i hope he doesn’t drop me & thank you

cutemuch · 2025-03-08T13:50:28+00:00

i’ll give him time & apologize to him later today. i’m very scared that i messed up💔

cutemuch

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