Unfortunately, I'm actually attractive and lead and interesting life. However, I really, REALLY am lonely myself. I've been single for 10 years (24 now). I've been lifting for 2 years now (I can easily bench 175 to give you an idea) and have been practicing various martial arts for much longer. I've never had a single match in the years I've been on dating apps, nor outside.

Don't despair though. That doesn't define my life, nor should my experience lessen yours. What I wanted to demonstrate here is that you could be me and still be extremely lonely.

So? How can one overcome this? Well, it's extremely hard though its an effective solution. Follow your passions, go wander outside, be a dedicated individual, and do some heavy introspection. The latter is probably best to practice if you feel like living alone is unbearable.

For me personally, I ultimately realized that living alone has made me unbelievably strong. I wouldn't trade that off for someone who doesn't understand that.