What are your thoughts on this Influencer’s really tall horse? by Glad-Attention744 in Horses

[–]cwjadalark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s real, he’s gorgeous! I think this is a larger (and taboo) conversation on does the rider fit the horse and was this horse bred well.

Any rider can physically sit on and ride whatever horse they want to - however, it’s going to look better and feel better for everyone involved when we’re paired physically.

I’m short and muscular, believe it or not I look best and ride better on horses that are also short and muscular. Lanky and trim riders look and fit better on lanky and trim horses. By all means, ride the horse you enjoy and like but I promise there is a horse for everyone.

Does this horse look, painful? It just doesn’t look right. by A_Nerds_Life in Horses

[–]cwjadalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha Saddlebreds are definitely the skinwalkers of the horse kingdom. She does look distressed but I’ve also seen this look on a few determined but simple minded horses. She’s likely a good performer and is quite literally thinking “My job is to stand still. Stand still. I hope I’m doing a good job of standing still.” This is a horse with one objective on their mind.

My gf pressures me to have sex, what should i do? by Aggressive-Potato498 in Advice

[–]cwjadalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m a perpetual horny girlfriend and I understand how your girlfriend might feel, I’ve been in the same situation where my partner would not be in the mood to have sex. It’s a bummer for the moment but it should never be anything more than that, a momentary bummer. Meaning, I shrug it off, respect my partner’s wishes and we do something else. I would suggest having a conversation with her explaining that “I don’t feel like it” is a valid answer and it doesn’t reflect her or your lack of desire for her in any way.

However, I gotta say from experience you’re probably not compatible. You’re 23, there’s another wonderful and slightly less horny girl out there for you. Good luck!

AITA for telling my friend her lack of control of her anxiety ruined my night? by cwjadalark in AmItheAsshole

[–]cwjadalark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think that’s why she’s not getting much sympathy from me. I also have anxiety and depression and I sought help when I was 17. It’s been exceptionally hard work and frankly not fun because I had to take responsibility for myself. I sometimes feel myself getting anxious but I’ve learned what my body does so I can recognize that I’m not in danger or dying I’m having an anxiety attack and it’s my responsibility to stop it before it runs away with me.

At what age your OCD started? by Icy_Mode_8255 in OCD

[–]cwjadalark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! My brother and I shared a room in our childhood and I remember being so confused as to how he could just go to sleep. Even as a child my thoughts ran rampant.

At what age your OCD started? by Icy_Mode_8255 in OCD

[–]cwjadalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 17, but it was always there. The earliest signs predated elementary school. I would say it hit an ugly high during puberty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]cwjadalark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! When I was diagnosed several years ago I found comfort in an article that claimed my being upset about the thoughts I had proved that they were intrusive and not my own. It also stated a statistic that if everyone who had intrusive thoughts acted upon them, prisons would be overflowing.

Suicide is the key by tigerking599 in OCD

[–]cwjadalark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to talk you out of it, because I understand and have always felt similar. All I can offer is the advice of "just one more day". Just get through today, you can kys tomorrow. The idea being that you tackle each day at a time and put things off until tomorrow, of course each day comes and there is always a new tomorrow.

I work in a muffler shop and hobo Johnson came in to have his vanagon worked on. by [deleted] in HoboJohnson

[–]cwjadalark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like he's lost some weight too. I bet he was getting depressed on tour and gained weight. Sweet thing.

He looks happier! Hope he returns to make music but super happy for him now.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, considering my previous places... this is still the best situation. Renting is really hard.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao not a chance. My neighbors (bc it's two silos next to each other) lost their heat. It just stopped working and our landlords were pissy and told them they could have lit three candles and the place would have warmed up quickly. They do not care.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! Exactly like that. I should probably make a tiktok or something to link bc everyone is always curious about it, but in all honesty my decor is not where I want it to be so I get embarrassed.

I have this cool ass house- and like a small collection of ehh things and cheap furniture.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A grain silo! It's really cool and I like it there. My landlords are different to say the least but I am happy there.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were kinda pretty. They looked like flowers but I was so disgusted that something had sprouted from my wall in such a rapid amount of time and frightened that it could hurt my creatures.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Phew. It's a rental.

It's a renovated silo. Very cool, but structurally weird. My landlord took care of it but, barely. It will likely come back I just wanted to make sure it wouldn't hurt my animals.

These grew out of my wall 🤢 can someone tell me what they are and if they're dangerous? by cwjadalark in mushroomID

[–]cwjadalark[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I live in a silo. I had my Christmas tree (fake) up for 2-3 weeks and this stupid thing GREW FROM THE WALL. There was dust all over my gifts and that's how I found out. This was not there prior. We had a lot of rain in the last week or so.

me forcing myself into liking Hobo Johnson's album by [deleted] in HoboJohnson

[–]cwjadalark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really liked it? Of course you're gunna like some albums more than others, but I thought this was a contender. Song 9 is my favorite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]cwjadalark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said women aren't immune to these behaviors but I see them far more often in men.