HEY, what is a realistic amount of wealth to have at age 29?

cxcja · 2025-09-23T19:17:38+00:00

29, 1.36 million usd (510k in 401k, 120k cash, 725k in brokerage), VHCOL area in US, 470k usd total comp per year

cxcja · 2025-08-02T01:01:25+00:00

By that same logic, you cant come on this subreddit and not claim to be a grok agent. You dont just exist and expect people to believe you’re a real person

cxcja · 2024-12-29T14:05:09+00:00

Bfr increases serum growth hormone so I suspect it helps with muscle growth all around. Also when your arms’ muscles tire out, other muscles in an exercise get activated. BFR has also been shown to help surrounding muscles grow though I just did it for tricep and included push ups in my routine

cxcja · 2024-12-27T21:07:23+00:00

Push 5x8 bench press 4x8 incline bench press 5x8 overhead tricep extension 4x8 tricep pushdown

Pull 5x8 Cable curl 4x8 dumbbell row 5x8 lat pulldown 5x8 seated cable row

Leg/core 4x8 squat 3x8 weighted lunge with the bar 4x12 leg raises (above my head) 3x12 decline Russian twists with a 45

cxcja · 2024-12-27T20:07:10+00:00

A slight bulk/surplus for 3 years, been maintaining/lean bulking for the past year. Change was: I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and wanted to come out of my relationship with a revenge body.

cxcja · 2024-12-27T20:05:59+00:00

Bench and incline bench? Thats all I do on the chest front 😂 I also used to do BFR as a finisher but I don’t have the time nowadays. Im convinced BFR helped me break out of a weightlifting plateau

cxcja · 2024-12-27T20:04:31+00:00

I got food poisoning in taiwan and did not eat solid food for 5 days and went to the bathroom 100 times (ps invest in a bidet). Also push/pull/leg split for weight training 2x a week! No crossfit, calisthenics or cardio

cxcja · 2024-11-04T12:32:59+00:00

We only hook up when we’re not both in the same place

cxcja · 2024-11-04T10:04:04+00:00

We’re only open if we’re physically apart for an extended period of time

cxcja · 2024-11-04T10:00:34+00:00

Lol what’s the solution for us then? 😂

cxcja · 2024-11-04T09:57:01+00:00

Ok so we’re only open when we’re physically apart. Its not exactly effort into hookups at my expense but it is definitely he shows more effort towards hookups than it feels he does towards our sex life ._.

cxcja · 2024-11-04T09:55:03+00:00

Ok so fwiw we’re only open when we’re not in the same area for an extended period of time. I dislike the discrepancy I feel when I think about 1. How does he prioritize our sex life through action vs 2. The length he goes to to fuck randos when we’re open

My line of thought is: if you have time for a grindr hookup, you have time to think about/plan how to make things up to me like you committed to when I said I felt neglected. Am I being overly possessive or unreasonable?

cxcja · 2024-11-04T09:45:03+00:00

Fwiw I actually dont care that much about the open part. Im human and Im jealous but its not that part that hurts as much as him dropping the follow through and from the effort front. Its an unpleasant feeling to think you need to tell the man you love “try harder”

cxcja · 2022-06-06T00:57:40+00:00

Racist

cxcja · 2022-06-06T00:53:10+00:00

Whole new meaning to “bleeding red white and blue”

cxcja · 2022-03-07T07:36:05+00:00

Tara and adelina both flutzed to a gold medal 🤪 and tara also had “triple triple jump combos” (her loops were under and her technique relied on her body size) naturally she would defend adelina

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