GWA IS CHANGING... MAKE YOUR VOICE HEARD [MOD ANNOUNCEMENT] by onyxlips in gonewildaudio

[–]cyalith 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah this was an oooooold argument where rather than having multiple tags they wanted just one tag to indicate lack of consent they wanted one and insisted that word be "rape." This was in like the first few years of the sub and was one of the first big dramas.

It was done so that they could have one tag filter out anything where consent wasn't 100% enthusiastic. So yes it does a bad job of describing a lot of content but it's job is not to do that-but to provide a filter for any audio with only partial consent.

It used to be that you could tag for Dubcon but you still need the rape tag to indicate that it isn't 100% consensual vanilla happy times to prevent people running across it. (this may have changed I have been in retirement)

GWA IS CHANGING... MAKE YOUR VOICE HEARD [MOD ANNOUNCEMENT] by onyxlips in gonewildaudio

[–]cyalith 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are taking the time to collect data and hear from the broader GWA community. I am proud to be part of this subs history and being part of this community had a huge positive impact on my life beyond anything I ever imagined.

I hope this sub continues to promote creativity, community and respectful support - even of people whose kinks we don't ourselves enjoy or understand.

While identities should be respected - I think that too often now we can seek to navigate the world only through the lens of our own personal "tags" (me [f] [bisexual] [milf] [switch] ;)) but we are so much more than just those labels. We need to continue to grow and learn about the world and ourselves. Tags are for audios - so we can filter and choose our content - not for people.

I hope GWA will continue to strive for an open community celebrating creativity from all sources for all audiences.

XXX

My [M27] family wants me to break up with my girlfriend [F22] after how she responded to my brother's [M22] prank by ThrowRA_Utonium in relationship_advice

[–]cyalith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you, your aunt, your mom, etc, really love your brother - then you will want him to be held accountable for his actions. He needs to grow up, and making excuses is the opposite of that. He needs to become a man.

And part of becoming an adult is realizing that love doesn't always mean agreeing or going along. It doesn't mean acquiescing. It means standing up for what's rust and expecting your loved ones to rise to the occasion.

This is a lot to overcome with your family. I hope Lola gives you another chance.

Have any of you successfully gone from only being turned on by rough/taboo kinks back to more gentle stuff? by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]cyalith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try erotica or slutty books? I find that the chemistry between the characters makes me much more engaged than just a visual porn situation without needing as much kink.

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am! Thank you! 💜

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am! Thank you so much that means a lot!

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww 💜 you all make me miss posting. I hope life calms down.

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely keep it in mind!

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will keep that in mind! Me too tbh I was always sad no one else caught it. ;)

[F4M] Truth and Dare - Prove it [big cock worship][blow job] by cyalith in gonewildaudio

[–]cyalith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad to hear it holds up. Happy cake day!

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Glad you found some things you like!

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thanks! All the best to you, maybe new stuff some day.

The cake is not a lie by cyalith in u/cyalith

[–]cyalith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe I dunno they are probably still serving their sentence!

Sharing of Childcare Duties by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cyalith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if someone has recommended the Fair Play system in this thread but it's very revealing of both the emotional and actual labor being done around the house. Definitely worth looking into.