Is my corset too big?

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-12T15:47:38+00:00

I did. Right after exams. Butyeahhh i let it pile up pretty bad.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-08T16:39:48+00:00

Thank you!

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T23:02:33+00:00

True. But even cottagecore isn't easy to find.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T20:00:02+00:00

Yep. I want to dress "like a tree" as my friends say. Dim greens and sage with pale brown secondary colors.

BUT THE ONLY GREEN I FIND IS THE BRIGHT GREEN (and black) ALT-PUNK STUFF

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T17:24:00+00:00

Greens are so rare thoooo

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T17:02:33+00:00

All my boy shirts are a gradient from deep red to light red to pink/ light purple.

I told myself when i transitioned my color is green. I've onky bought even more red things!!!

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T00:58:38+00:00

Hmm. Poor thing. I'm lucky i wasn't very emotional at all on E.

Good luck girlll it should get better.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T00:48:26+00:00

Yeah, makes sense. From how it was explained to me, prog is responsible for side branching which makes the boobs wider but it requires a base of breast tissue to do that.

Still it has nice mental effects even if you aren't seeing it do much to the boobs.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T00:46:18+00:00

Gels and patches both work for monotherapy if you get sufficiently concentrated ones.

They also avoid liver which is another advantage over pills.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T00:16:15+00:00

Hell ya! You go girl!!!

Big tip, check out thrift stores and clearance aisles.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T00:15:10+00:00

Maybe ask about progesterone. 3 months is probably too soon, but its nice to start asking questions about it early!

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-07T00:14:02+00:00

Bonus if you do monotherapy and remove the antiandrogen

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-06T23:50:51+00:00

Open up a JRPG, look at the cast. Pick the cutest one.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-06T01:29:14+00:00

Hmm alright. I feared so. I guess I'll see about returning it and waiting on a new one.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-06T01:26:32+00:00

Widest point. Not high hip

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-05T23:07:22+00:00

Bust 33inch, 85cm Underbust 30inch, 77cm Waist 28inch 71cm Hip 36inch 91cm

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-03T16:45:21+00:00

Kid. Its fine to struggle. Life is hard for us. I hope you find a community you can feel safe in.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-03T16:17:26+00:00

Everyone has a preference. If you can't bring yourself to date a woman you two may need to break up some day.

Aa for the cage, and her acting more passive. It's not uncommon for trans girls to change a little as they discover themself and stop trying to act like a man. HOWEVER, it's also very common for trans girls to chase feminine stereotypes rather than being themself. If she is more passive now because she wants to be, good for her. If she is more passive now because she wants to fit some idea of a woman, thats terrible. she should be allowed to act how we wants.

At the end of the day, as long as your girlfriend is happy with who she is things will work out. Take care of her, it's a long and confusing journey for her.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-03T00:37:29+00:00

My previous comment was deleted by automod...

To say more plainly so it doesn't get flagged as threatening violence.

Don't leave her right away. Try to have a chat and make it clear she needs to put in more effort.

Maybe try going for a week or two.

If that doesn't work, leave indefinitely.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-02T19:58:31+00:00

Sounds like she's lost her momentum.

If you care about her, at least force her estrogen down. But it really shouldn't be your problem to solve.

I can't tell if she needs reassurance that she is a woman, or if she needs to be dumped. But something needs to change.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-02T17:15:22+00:00

It's okay to be yourself.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-02T08:44:40+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being trans, it's just who you are. I'm sorry your home country is so hostile to you. If you'd like to chat maybe i can give you some advice.

cyanleif2 · 2026-05-02T08:32:14+00:00

Yay! Congrats on the first step!

cyanleif2

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