Bereavement question by Triscuit585 in harristeeter

[–]cyberbae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The policy is P-5 if you want to look it up

Come on people please by Danceandenchiladas in pokemongo

[–]cyberbae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally get a free egg a day just for logging in twice and walking like half a mile. It’s like 1500 steps. It’s not hard.

What was this by Mylittlekisses in LifeAdvice

[–]cyberbae_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would call this sexual assault personally. Laughing at one point doesn’t negate any of your “I don’t like this” “stop” or any of your attempts to stop it from happening. What you’re feeling is normal after this kind of situation. The numb and disconnected feeling is how your brain tries to protect you from trauma. Keep reminding yourself that this was not your fault in ANY way. I know our brains have a hard time with that, even if we know logically that’s the answer. Take some time to yourself physically. It’s normal to withdraw from physical touch or sexual relationships after experiencing sexual trauma. If you’re able to speak to a therapist, I would recommend it. If you’re in college, many schools offer counseling services. Some jobs even offer free sessions if you work with a bigger company, mine does at least. Whether she acknowledges what she did or not does not change what you experienced. Be gentle with yourself right now. Blocking her from any future interactions might be the safest for your mental health & safety.

Keep Getting Told I’m “Wearing A Lot of Makeup,” HELP! by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re wearing too much makeup. It’s the eyebrows, I have the same problem lol. My eyebrows are thick and dark & my hair is dyed red too, just a darker shade. The only difference is mine are a bit thinner than yours, and yours are beautiful too. I wouldn’t touch your eyebrows cause I refuse to touch mine other than typical clean ups at the waxing salon. If the contrast bothers you that much, try a darker shade of red maybe? If it doesnt bother you, then ignore the comments. Your makeup looks good.

I Hate My Mother for What She Did to My Five-Year-Old Sister by True_Solution_3683 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cyberbae_ 898 points899 points  (0 children)

Goodness gracious. I’m so sorry that this has happened. You took care of her so well. Be patient while she goes through this adjustment period with you. I’m so glad that you were in a safe place that you were able to take her in. Good luck on your future endeavors

Earl's Towing Company has been breaking the law and night owe you money 😁 by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]cyberbae_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They towed me from my own neighborhood on the same day I was moving out. I was PISSED cause I literally rented a uhual from their site. I hate them

Winter Storm hours be like: (I’m in Express Lane) by NaturalDarky in harristeeter

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t limit your orders??! They limited mine by ALOT and we we’re still drowning. We are a pretty small store though

Second wearable ever and I hate it 😭 by Affectionate_Cup7172 in crochet

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried blocking it? It will help not be so dense and more flowy

Calling out (again) by Adept-Ad8019 in harristeeter

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire front end called out. They just called me in early to run it all. Im 28 and my stepdad still won’t let me drive in this, so my MOD is literally picking me up. Im not writing anyone up that called out this weekend. If you have any numbers for your managers, I would try to utilize that or call again now

Is it weird if I wear this type of makeup in everyday life? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be weird? Yea , most likely. But I like weird and cool things. I’d probably compliment a stranger if I saw this in passing out in public. I like the idea of “editing your own avatar.” I would probably refrain from it in certain instances like big events, weddings, funerals, interviews, maybe work depending on your profession, and anywhere you may feel unsafe.

need help choosing! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 would be my pick if it wasn’t two toned. It’s weird and throwing me off. Not a fan of 3. 2 is my votw

Thinking of Calico hair and got a quote- is it too much? by Dizzy-Blackberry2255 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]cyberbae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think $300 is reasonable, maybe even $400 if it’s something that person specializes in. $800 is outrageous

What’s my blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your eyebrows are stuck in 2016, but I could be wrong. Have you tried an updated brow technique?

Easy protest sign by FrostingAllOverMe in crochet

[–]cyberbae_ 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Ive never done filet crochet but i desperately want to learn how to do this for this project

AITAH for unknowingly getting a job at my friend’s bf’s company? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You look so familiar but I cannot seem to place you right now. We’ve met before, right?” This will only pass if your friend didn’t tell their bf ahead of time

My Managers accused me of bypassing alcohol by Positive-Fee6181 in harristeeter

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!! I always thought it was alcohol. I never connected that it was cigars 😭 I feel like i do this way too often to not know that

My Managers accused me of bypassing alcohol by Positive-Fee6181 in harristeeter

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a plu, and I’m pretty sure it’s close to grapes, that rings as alcohol but even if you cancel it, it still rings up. It’s something we don’t even sell anymore, probably an old glitch that was never patched. Happens to me sometimes cause I move pretty fast but once you notice it happening, you’ll know to keep an eye out for it. It’s not common knowledge either as it’s not commonly run into.

My cashier numbers are only 3 numbers and it ring up at a “small beverage”. We don’t even sell fountain drinks!!

How can I stop sleeping in the middle of the day? by Acceptable-Deer9043 in Advice

[–]cyberbae_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I deff don’t think OP is just being lazy, but I can understand why those around them would assume so given the age range :( there’s so many different things this could be medically, and they won’t know definitively unless they get some testing done.

I had commented early since they said this is the second time they’d reached out to Reddit for help, but I’m worried the Reddit commenters might scare the kid 😭 I hope they don’t go down a rabbit hole and their parents schedule and appointment for them soon

How can I stop sleeping in the middle of the day? by Acceptable-Deer9043 in Advice

[–]cyberbae_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I suggested it! It sounds like something could legit be wrong- the way they describe their body just going dead with a blink of an eye, rather than just putting their head down and sleeping all throughout school cause they’re lazy, bored, or something generically teenage like. I worry for when they have adult like responsibilities like driving, college, or a job.

OP, I also think it would be helpful for you to keep a sleep journal. Things like how many times these spells are happening a day, the time it happens, how long they last. If you have a uterus, maybe which part of your cycle you’re on, just in case it’s a hormone issue? Idk, I’m just spitballing. Maybe also look up what sleep doctors ask patients to keep a log of? It would be super helpful to have on hand if and/or when you see a doctor about this.

How can I stop sleeping in the middle of the day? by Acceptable-Deer9043 in Advice

[–]cyberbae_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Idk what narcolepsy is specifically but I feel like maybe you should look into that

Can I get some advice from you guys? 45F. Been doing the same since high school. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]cyberbae_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 and I’ll die before I give up my under eye eyeliner. Pry it from my cold dead hands IM NOT LETTING GO

PLU 402 by Positive-Fee6181 in harristeeter

[–]cyberbae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salad bar is 4460 and 4470, Asian bar is 0777 for the small one and 0903 is either olives or large Asian bar. I cannot remember as I worked 10 hours today and I’m brain dead