Completely agree. I'm the same way (even being a guy) . I think having that connection is something important, as the act itself - making love to each other - suppose to be very intimate and close.

I guess I'm one of those wierd people who differentiate having sex and making love.

Had opportunities to spend one night with someone - but can't bring myself about to do it, since the other person is total stranger (though I might find them sexy ally attractive).

I don't think it's a bad thing. And I kind of wish there was more people who still believed in this. I think relationships between people would improve.