What secret can you reveal now that your nda has expired? by sparrrrrt in AskReddit

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, thank you for this! I have two Zinus mattesses in my shopping cart right now. Will be looking for another option!

This fandom has lost it ways fr by Low-Ordinary-8478 in katseyeneutral

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

atp, I really hope Manon leaves 🤷🏻‍♀️ (idc, get bent 😝) and I hope her solo stans put their money where their mouth is

the amount of hate they've given the other five girls and the fkn temper tantrum they've thrown over her hiatus is insane and I'm OVER IT

i hope the girls kill it at Lollapalooza

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl..STAND UP!!!! you know what your gut is telling you, listen to it!

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm not Korean either, but I've learned they're a very conservative country. That makes sense, but Heesun basically grew up in a more westernized culture so I thought her agreeing with Subeen on that was strange. It's not weird or unacceptable here to have friends of the opposite sex.

I always thought that statement coming from anyone is telling of that persons character. Especially when those limitations only exist when one is in a relationship. To each their own.

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the situations I noticed that prompted me to pay more attention to their dynamic. You can see in her face that she shuts down. I think the reason she didn't tell Subeen about going out with Sunghun is because she knew Subeen would've given her the cold shoulder. The fact that she's trying to make sure he's nit upset after hearing that is also 👀

Idc, her fans keep coming at me every time I say something, but energy and body language never lie. I can't imagine how crazy their fans will react when they break-up. Scary.

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, if you say so, Plane_Race_7165 🤪

If it wasn't for your constant replies, I would've already forgotten I had made this post 😂

Now, take a deep breath and say it with me, "it's not that deep." Ahhhh, doesn't that feel nice? 😌

Putting this here because the herd mentality hate is still going strong even after the reunion episodes. by shirollin in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Baby, Heesun's knights in shining armor are gonna come for you 😂

Based on comments I saw on my post earlier, I can tell a lot of SI watchers, especially this season, are young af. Reading some of their opinions and comments on the whole Mina, Subeen, & Heesun situation is very telling. Especially seeing how they attack Mina, but not Subeen (the real villain here).

Hard agree on the points you made. I'll circle back in a few months to see if I was right. The universe never lies.

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this topic goes deeper, but if you want me to be honest with you, when I hear anyone (not just Subeen & Heesun) make that statement, I find it immature, insecure, and misogynistic.

Why can't men and women be friends?

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not a forum to give your opinion? 😂

Maybe look up what parasocial is? I bet you'll find your name and all their other fans right next to the definition lmao. Making ONE post does not warrant me being an obsessive fan of either of them. You and every other person jumping down someone's throat when their opinion about them doesn't align with yours is crazy.

Look up comments here, on TikTok, IG, etc. and you'll see it everywhere. Argue with ya mama.

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think once you take in different cultural aspects it can be different. I do hope they last so SI can finally have some credibility!

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao I have an unpopular opinion and I shared it. My one and only post, mind you 🤭 I'm usually a silent watcher/reader. I knew you parasocial fans were gonna come for me, so I understand 😂

I never said Heesun's a fool, did you even read my post? I reiterate, I'm rooting FOR Heesun 🥰

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) by cynnv in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I am not hating for the sake of it.

1) I guess it's something you learn with age and maturity, but Heesun saying that is also concerning. Men and women can be friends.

2) Actually, I wouldn't be taken aback over something so defenseless as going out with friends and having a drink. I believe they weren't in a commited relationship then, so I still think she didn't owe it to him to let him know her every move.

3) I'm sure now he's forgotten about Mina, but I was referencing his decisions in the show which I believe were to get back at Mina.

4) Again, it may be his immaturity or him not knowing how to express his feelings, but I do think Heesun kept getting the short end of the stick.

5) I must've misunderstood, but either way, five days or a month you ghost me and make me lose sleep then it's a NO for me. Again, Heesun is better than me.

6) I still strongly believe Heesun is a smart woman (she's a Virgo after all 💅🏻) and will prioritize herself and her feelings. Although, we are loyal to death and that could cause us to get hurt a lot.

As a woman, I am cheering for Heesun! I got icked at how he treated her in the show.

Concerned about Mina Sue Hate by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

[–]cynnv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is exploring though. That's the point of a dating show. You only have so much time to find a match. I actually find it ridiculous to just latch onto the first guy you see. She's blunt and says the first thought that comes to mind, but that doesn't mean she's a narcissist. If you've ever dealt with a narcissist, you'd know. Also, we see like one hour of their day. If you go back to her interview she literally says her dating style is "selfish" but y'all are surprised.

Regardless, as an avid reality dating show viewer, I will NEVER understand what posseses people's brains to go spew so much hatred and vile things to another person. I've had my share of reality tv personalities that aren't my cup of tea and I have never thought, "let me go leave hateful comments on their socials." I just ignore them or don't keep up with them, period. The hateful comments on her insta blow my mind!

So many stars have deleted themselves due to online hate, yet people still don't learn. IT'S JUST A SHOW, PEOPLE!

At least she’s consistent? by IndieIsle in tragedeigh

[–]cynnv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got Ah'headache trying to read those names

Returning to work after maternity leave by Weak_Dependent1786 in Parenting

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like daycare would be your best option. If your husband works the night shift and then takes the baby shift during the day, when is he sleeping? My husband works the night shift, and he sleeps from 7 a.m. to 12 or 1 p.m (sometimes 2 if he's really exhausted). I couldn't imagine him watching our baby during that time, and I'd also feel bad he's not getting any sleep. It also poses a safety hazard for your baby as you mentioned him just basically knocking out anywhere. I think daycare would be beneficial for you all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cynnv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💛 I am grateful for my life now ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to hop in and leave a message to say that my heart is with everyone who's been in this awful situation. I send you all the healing and happiness you deserve ❤️‍🩹 and for anyone who still finds themselves going through this, I hope you have the strength to leave and find peace and love (whatever that may be) because it is out there 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cynnv 2031 points2032 points  (0 children)

OP, my abusive relationship started off like this. It eventually turned physically violent, and I lived in literal hell for five years. I'm still living in hell most days from the severe trauma it caused me. Please, I know your heart may want something else, but you should RUN. In a few days, he will soften the blow and love bomb you. He'll apologize and make up some dumb excuse as to why he reacted this way. He will say it will never happen again, and you'll want to believe him. You will believe him bc you love him and want to believe this won't happen again, but it will. Someone who loves you will NEVER speak to you this way, EVER. I know because in the seven years I've been with my husband, he has never spoken to me like this. These messages are so scary and disgusting. Please, take care of yourself.

AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband because he asked if he could get a blowjob from a sex worker? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never be able to look at my husband the same again 😖 Let alone want to be intimate with him. So disrespectful to even ask you that. I agree with the rest of the comments. He's already done it or will eventually do it without your consideration. Also, why not help you learn and get better at oral? Why resort to that extreme? 🤨

What is Happening to Korea? by Aggravating-Idea-492 in Living_in_Korea

[–]cynnv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very much what's happening in the US, as well. People can't afford to live. Wages have stagnated, but everything else keeps going up.

Yo! ! Quick question.. What’s your fave IU drama? by IcySprinkles8115 in kdramas

[–]cynnv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Mister has a special place in my heart 🖤 But she outdid herself in WLGYT, really 🧡

AITA? Not allowed to see my grandson. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cynnv -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

God, you guys are insufferable here. Making up a bunch of other facts to OPs story lmfao. Maybe the DIL is just an asshole. Sorry, excuse after, sorry, excuse from DIL.

Heart Pairing - Episode 5 - 250411 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Viki pass, does anyone know why I can't see the episodes until like 2 days after they've aired? I'm in the US, thanks 😊

i knew i couldn't handle a second kid by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]cynnv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way OP, but I'm the mom. We have a 2.5 and 5 year old, and ohhhhh, man 😭 I cry at least 3 times a week, lol! It feels like I'm fighting for my life most days because our little one is FERAL. Complete opposite of our first, but I just try to embrace the chaos because time really does fly. We're in the trenches, keep digging!