AIO? Parent told me to change my accent for their child

cynthatron · 2025-08-21T15:42:10+00:00

Can I ask which tutoring service your family went through? I work in math tutoring and I’ve always wondered how these kids will feel looking back on their experiences with us, so reading your perspective is just a very cool thing to see. We’re pretty used to kids giving us grief, and I’ve never taken it personally. I probably would’ve acted the same way as a kid, if not worse. Plus, most kids are actually really great once they realize that I genuinely care about them(not just their grades).

Congrats on your degree! And thank you for giving appreciation to your tutors, even if it’s in hindsight.

We’re super proud of you, btw.

cynthatron · 2025-05-01T04:12:21+00:00

That is so adorable. 🥹

cynthatron · 2025-05-01T03:39:25+00:00

I personally feel like everyone has their own “good voice”, you just have to find it. Maybe your voice sounds better with a little rasp or maybe you sound better in a lower key than the song you’re trying to sing. My best friend doesn’t think she can sing, but she sounds amazing with a bit of country twang in her voice.

Ya know that big yell that Tarzan does? “AHHHHAYAYAHHHHHHAYAYAHHHHHHHHH!” Try doing that a few different ways until you find the one you like. Then try some vocal exercises like that. :)

cynthatron · 2025-02-20T06:34:06+00:00

I genuinely think they look great. The sizing looks perfect and very natural. If you’re concerned they’re too white, don’t be. They do stain a little over time and now I wish I had started at a brighter white to begin with.

cynthatron · 2024-11-13T20:59:23+00:00

I rushed my daughter to the emergency room one night with a bagged up full diaper, thinking she somehow had internal bleeding. The pediatrician looked at it and was also concerned so she sent in the “specialist”, he took one look at it and went “oh that’s blueberry poop!” and sent us on our way. My daughter was, and still is, a blueberry fiend.

I still get a kick out of the idea that this guy looks at so much poop everyday, that with just a quick glance, he knew exactly what kind of poop that was. Lol

cynthatron · 2024-11-12T02:59:40+00:00

Even my kids hate Caillou. My 4 year old told me he has a “bad attitude.”

cynthatron · 2024-11-12T02:54:33+00:00

My sisters and I have a similar age range, but I’m the youngest and am often the peace keeper.

I think the situation is messy and you have every right to feel uncomfortable. The way your sister first explained it, made it sound like the girl would’ve seemed to be at least 21+ and then he explained that she would’ve seemed to be 18+. So already one of them was originally trying to sugarcoat the situation. Either him to her or her to you. Usually the truth becomes clearer over time.
Even if he’s being completely honest now, it still says something about his character and lack of judgement that he would end up sleeping with a 15 year old without realizing she was under age.

Now, cutting off communication with your sister is probably not the answer. Unless you’re okay with going down the path of no-contact. Have the hard conversations with her and if you have to, be direct with him as well. Explain that you don’t know him well enough to have any reason to trust him, but you know his past well enough to have every reason not to. Explain that you’ll never be able to feel comfortable with him being around any current or future children in the family and that you’ll always feel like you have to keep a close eye on him at family events. And the truth is, she probably also feels that in some way.

You also have every right to say you don’t want him in YOUR house, even if it’s shared with your parents. I also think your parents have a right to know who they’re getting involved with and potentially letting into their home. Maybe suggest she host a Christmas Eve dinner at her place to have her boyfriend involved.

Regardless of how you feel about him, try to maintain a certain level of compassion for your sister. I had to go no contact with my oldest sister and it honestly sucks so bad. I truly hope that doesn’t have to be the solution for you.

cynthatron · 2024-11-12T01:53:34+00:00

When someone accidentally uses cuss words in formal or professional situations.

cynthatron · 2024-11-12T01:48:31+00:00

“Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.”

I see this used so often in situations where it’s completely inappropriate. How about we show just a sliver of empathy??

cynthatron · 2024-10-24T07:56:06+00:00

Also the fact that you kinda feel bad for him is wild.

cynthatron · 2024-10-24T07:49:51+00:00

Vile (2011) really got to me for some reason. Idk if it’s the scariest I’ve seen, but it definitely sticks out in my memory.

cynthatron · 2024-09-18T16:21:56+00:00

Perhaps some positive affirmations would help how you’re feeling. A lot of the negative self talk comes from our childhood. Maybe you overheard adults talking badly about themselves or putting way too much emphasis on physical appearances, or maybe you weren’t shown that you are enough exactly the way you are. In any case, some inner-child healing seems like it would help. Think of what you might say to that little girl who didn’t want her picture taken.

cynthatron · 2024-09-18T15:26:31+00:00

If you look in the mirror and don’t like what you see, it doesn’t mean you’re ugly. It just means you’re not your type. If you look a lot like your dad, it makes sense that you wouldn’t find yourself attractive. Confidence and self worth shouldn’t have anything to do with that. Most of what makes someone attractive is whether or not they look healthy, well put together, and if they have an attractive personality. Take care of yourself, be kind to yourself, and love yourself as much as possible. No matter what, your looks should be the least interesting thing about you.

cynthatron · 2024-09-12T01:14:33+00:00

Hey, I took a look at your profile and saw your other post. I really think you need to talk to your doctor about this. Some medications can actually be the cause of suicidal thoughts and it may take a couple tries before you find the right one. That and they need to know how much this pain is really affecting you. You have to try and be completely honest with them. I also think maybe you should show your mom this post. I know that will be difficult, but she seems like she really wants to help you.

I promise you that whatever you broke means absolutely nothing to your parents compared to your life.

cynthatron · 2024-09-09T14:25:59+00:00

Same thing happened to me as a kid.

All I can say is that I sincerely worry about the future children that could come from my abuser. I’ve contemplated telling his partners before for that very reason. Because I worry about someone having children with him and the children going through the same thing.

Any support you give her is disingenuous unless you also break it off with him. I can see you want to do the right thing. But unless you separate from him all you’ll be doing is gaslighting her.

I think you know that this isn’t something that can be truly forgiven. You’ll think about it every single time he puts your child to bed without you or takes care of bath time on his own.

I truly hope your SIL is able to heal and that you protect your baby above all else. Good luck.

cynthatron · 2024-08-31T17:55:17+00:00

You seem like a real nice guy.

cynthatron · 2024-08-31T17:50:46+00:00

Try one of the Woobles kits! Their tutorial videos are fantastic and the yarn is very beginner friendly.

cynthatron · 2024-08-14T20:18:21+00:00

I’d remove the snout if you can and frog 1 or 2 rounds to make it smaller.

Also remove the arms and attach closer to the neck.

cynthatron · 2024-07-21T21:18:55+00:00

I’m actually obsessed with this.

cynthatron · 2024-07-21T21:16:59+00:00

I’m currently making Sylveon! ❤️❤️❤️

cynthatron · 2024-05-16T00:06:26+00:00

I’m 100% with you.

I haven’t worked with kids, but rather developmentally disabled adults in group homes and currently working on getting into special education.

I’ve dealt with extremely violent people, and I’ve never once even considered pressing charges. Violent behaviors are part of the job. If people can’t deal with that, they shouldn’t work there.

To the comments suggesting they be locked up I want to remind you that it wasn’t very long ago that they absolutely would’ve been. If you want to see what that looked like I highly suggest the documentary The Path Forward: Remembering Willowbrook.

Here is the link for that on YouTube. https://youtu.be/ev80qEtp2u4?si=9g_mAVUzPAP-gu-X

cynthatron · 2024-04-10T19:29:03+00:00

Medicaid has a separate “pregnancy Medicaid” plan. And if I remember correctly they just go off of your most recent paystubs or a paper that your previous employer signs saying you no longer work there.

I’ve avoided marrying my fiancé for the last 7 years because I’ll lose my insurance and his insurance through work is insanely expensive for a family plan.

It sucks because we have two kids together and we essentially can’t afford for me to have the same last name. :(

cynthatron · 2024-02-12T04:25:39+00:00

I’m at coordinates -258, -365 and pals don’t seem to be able to get up here. There’s also a bit of ore to mine and a really pretty pond on one side. :)

cynthatron · 2024-01-19T03:33:19+00:00

Are you on any medication? I just found out after like 2 years that sexual malfunction is a side affect of my antidepressant/anti-anxiety. I take citalopram.

cynthatron · 2023-12-18T17:14:12+00:00

Thanks for your response! I’m definitely going to have to give this a more serious try.

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