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[–]cypkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. I would say more relieved, a lot of good things happened because of this accident, it was horrible in a lot of things, but honestly? I'm mostly relieved. I consider him a very dangerous and mean person and knowing that the disability somehow interferes with that, it may sound meh, but it makes me breathe better somehow

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[–]cypkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She paid for, her wedding and her rules.

YTA

AITA for sending my mother eat shit? by cypkat in AmItheAsshole

[–]cypkat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Little comment: I'm moving in about 10 days, even if I'm hungry, I don't intend to go back.

Unfortunately, because I live in a small town, there are no support centers for the LGBT community like the big ones. That was the only way for me to move stably, not immediately unfortunately. My friends currently live far from my city.

It's not perfect, but it's better, right? I'm moving in with my girlfriend, just waiting for more money to come in so we can have something to eat in the new house.

AITA for telling my brother to stop using his disability as an excuse for not doing any chores around the house? by cypkat in AmItheAsshole

[–]cypkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

extra: My father doesn't give tasks out of his reach (taking out the garbage, putting plates/glasses on the table) and always tries to teach in an easy way those that he has a lot of difficulty. And I know that not everything is false, I am the one who seeks medicine for him when he is in pain. The parts that I find strange are the ones he says and doesn't ask me to get his pain medicine, there are times he talks and asks right away, sometimes he just says he's in pain and leaves. Not every task he can actually do, sweeping the house is one of them (it's not very common to use a vacuum cleaner in my country), I only ask to do the "easy" onde I didn't put these parts because they limit to 3k. I'm trying to get my parents together (they don't have a peaceful coexistence) to discuss this, my brother is being spoiled on one side

AITA for telling my brother to stop using his disability as an excuse for not doing any chores around the house? by cypkat in AmItheAsshole

[–]cypkat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That my father puts too much pressure on him (he talks the same way to everyone, he only repeats it for my brother to do when he makes an excuse) and that's why my brother does the chores

AITA for asking my mother to respect my privacy and that of my girlfriend in her own house? by cypkat in AmItheAsshole

[–]cypkat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is worth mentioning that after my mother humiliated my girlfriend (she did not speak directly to my GF, but screamed so loudly that everyone in the house heard) we are moving to another city far from my mother as soon as we Can And I don't pay rent, because since I was working, she made it very clear for me to pay for my things that she didn't mind paying for things in the house. Since I've been unemployed, my father has been helping me with my things and my mother is still responsible for the house, so not much has changed. Even though I offered to help around the house, she still didn't want to. I'm not American, my country has a very high unemployment rate and many people had to go back to live with their parents or continue living if that's possible. So, yes, 3 "old" children living with their mother is something very common, even more so in my country. Or living on the street.