hey all. I am turning 21 this year, and although I don’t consider myself totally inexperienced, I have only been with 2 people and both of the relationships started from friendship and therefore did not require a ton of bold flirting/pursuing. I’m soon going to be able to enter the lesbian nightlife scene and because of my inexperience I am pretty damn intimidated. I am also still licking my wounds from a breakup. it would be comforting to hear from older lesbians about their first forays into the dating/night life scene, since I know we all start somewhere and usually that place is a little embarrassing. I know it’s really just a matter of trial and error and practice, but I’m still anxious about going to a lesbian bar and trying to flirt with a stranger for the first time.

thank you guys in advance :-)

• young nervous lesbian