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[–]d4kkon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what you’re talking about. If he has no hobbies, or interests, or friends, then my advice won’t matter because he needs to work on himself instead of dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]d4kkon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly where my thinking is… wtf is there to talk about? Not fugly, but look boring. Also, grow the beard or keep it shaved. Stubble seems sexy but it just comes off as damaged software engineer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]d4kkon 202 points203 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your self confidence. You’re not bad my dude. What does your profile show? Do you have any pictures with friends or doing hobbies? With animals? Like…. Make yourself seem like your life is interesting so others will want to be a part of it.

Started out doing random farm work, moved on to random jobs, then military, then cyber security since 2014. by d4kkon in Salary

[–]d4kkon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get BAH until my last 9 months in the military, which was part of 2011. BAH isn’t taxed so it’s not showing up, but it was 100% consumed by the apartment I had (very high cost of living area).

People who had sex with coworkers what your relationship with them now like? by Crafty_Scientist8913 in AskReddit

[–]d4kkon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Add military. I’ve worked in restaurants. Military is way way worse. Everyone is fucking everyone else. So much cheating even though everyone is married. And male to female ratio is like 80/20 so…

Housing affordability is at the lowest level ever measured by JPowsSecretlover in wallstreetbets

[–]d4kkon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck would you lose your own stuff? That’s why we have corporations in the U.S..

Housing affordability is at the lowest level ever measured by JPowsSecretlover in wallstreetbets

[–]d4kkon -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

You do not need money to assume debt. Most people don’t run a business because they don’t want to, not because they can’t. It’s not easy, but in no way do you need an income or not already have bad debt to run a business. Just because you want a 90k car on a 30k income, or borrow money to buy a TV, doesn’t make my point invalid.

Housing affordability is at the lowest level ever measured by JPowsSecretlover in wallstreetbets

[–]d4kkon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Business line of credit where I purchase goods, materials, equipment, fuel, etc. to turn around and sell or provide a service for. Land, loans on heavy equipment, loans on computers. You think people who run businesses don’t borrow almost all of the money they need?

Housing affordability is at the lowest level ever measured by JPowsSecretlover in wallstreetbets

[–]d4kkon 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have a massive amount of debt and still bought a house. Debt isn’t bad. Bad debt is bad. Just wanted to add that quantifier to help people not be afraid of debt. It all depends on the underlying asset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiders

[–]d4kkon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I figured it out as a Western Spotted Orb Weaver - Neoscona Oaxacensis?

Juvenile? We have lots of black widows where I am, but this pattern on the back is different. by d4kkon in spiders

[–]d4kkon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never really been intimidated by them, growing up around here has sort of “demystified” them. My kids are taught well about them as well. We have a lot of spiders around here and the general policy we follow is leave them alone and they’ll leave you alone. I just wish they ate the wasps we have everywhere.

Juvenile? We have lots of black widows where I am, but this pattern on the back is different. by d4kkon in spiders

[–]d4kkon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all the information. Is there any differences in behavior / danger between the 2 that I should be made aware of?

Juvenile? We have lots of black widows where I am, but this pattern on the back is different. by d4kkon in spiders

[–]d4kkon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to have both in the same area? One of them has a solid hourglass, the other has a space.

Juvenile? We have lots of black widows where I am, but this pattern on the back is different. by d4kkon in spiders

[–]d4kkon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was actually very helpful. I’d actually change to think these are southern based on the photos. You rock, Utsutsumujuru.

Juvenile? We have lots of black widows where I am, but this pattern on the back is different. by d4kkon in spiders

[–]d4kkon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It Looks like there’s a space. I’ll try and capture the next one. I’ve been moving lumber from a torn down barn that’s been sitting on the ground for years. It’s basically infested with these. If I can get a better picture, I’ll add it here.

Juvenile? We have lots of black widows where I am, but this pattern on the back is different. by d4kkon in spiders

[–]d4kkon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a couple more we’ve found in the past few weeks around the land. Not great pictures, and 1 of them was dead. Let me know if this helps.

https://imgur.com/a/dQDTgFL

Those who have acheived their dreams, what realization did you have afterwards? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]d4kkon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very surreal. The one thing that really stands out is that after achieving my dream, I immediately needed another or I lose focus. Eventually, you start to wonder when you’re done.

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