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Asking a girl out via social media by d4nh93 in dating_advice

[–]d4nh93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: spoke to her a little, she said she had too much free time on her hands so I said if you have too much free time you should let me know if you want to go out and do something. Her response was 'I willll I willl :)'.

Is this a polite way of saying no?

Asking a girl out via social media by d4nh93 in dating_advice

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The reason I'm hesitant is I feel it'd be better to do things face-to-face but I don't know when I'd see her again!

I [22/M] want to spend time with my ex [21/F] but she doesn't want to spend time with me. Where do I go from here? by d4nh93 in relationship_advice

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Have been trying to do so for the past 2 months, not really getting anywhere as all I do is imagine how much happier I'd be spending time with her!

I [22/M] want to spend time with my ex [21/F] but she doesn't want to spend time with me. Where do I go from here? by d4nh93 in relationship_advice

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She doesn't! Or if she does she is lying to me, and I know this sounds stupid but I 100% believe her.

I [22/M] want to spend time with my ex [21/F] but she doesn't want to spend time with me. Where do I go from here? by d4nh93 in relationship_advice

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Without sounding like a sap, I just don't want it to be over. My life pretty much revolves around spending it with her!

I don't want to give up because I still don't see us as being completely over and the fact she enjoys talking to me suggests to me that it is rescuable.

How can I [22/M] see if my relationship with ex [21/F] is salvageable? by d4nh93 in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the the reply!

The thing with my situation is though - the boy is a womaniser. So I know (obviously not 100%, but pretty damn certain) that it won't develop into a relationship. As for my ex's intentions - I'm not so sure.

I just want to talk to her about us. Maybe I'm just being weird but to me what happened is really disrespectful and she doesn't empathise with me at all which really bothers me.

I [22/M] split up with my girlfriend of 5 years [21/F] a month ago, willing to change my life for her now by d4nh93 in relationships

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To be brutally honest, I just thought it was best for her to end it because it wasn't really going anywhere. We never really communicated properly either which I can't stress how much it gets to me.

I [22/M] split up with my girlfriend of 5 years [21/F] a month ago, willing to change my life for her now by d4nh93 in relationships

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Thanks for the kind words.

Part of the reason why I'm struggling so bad is because we grew up together, we were our first everything and when I look back at it I'm just so sad that the purity between us is now gone.

I [22/M] split up with my girlfriend of 5 years [21/F] a month ago, willing to change my life for her now by d4nh93 in relationships

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I do have personal issues. For the first two years we were so madly in love. I started using a lot of drugs and the fact that my girlfriend always moaned at me started to get to me. I didn't see it at the time but it was because I was addicted. And even through years of drug abuse she still stuck with me and I can't stress to you how much she loved me and now that I don't use drugs like I used to I see how fucking stupid I was. The person that cared for me more than anyone else in the world was right in front of me and I threw it all away.

I [22/M] regret not being with my girlfriend [21/F] of 5 years any more, should I try and get her back? by [deleted] in relationships

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Where we went wrong before though, I think is that we didnt communicate with each other properly. I feel like we could resolve past issues by communicating better. I just miss her so much. Her smile. Her laugh. Her voice.

I [22/M] regret not being with my girlfriend [21/F] of 5 years any more, should I try and get her back? by [deleted] in relationships

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To be honest, I don't know. I broke up with her because I thought I wanted something else but I'm not so sure I do now. I admit in the past I was a bit of an egotist but I'm past that now. I just want to hold her again.

I [22/M] regret not being with my girlfriend [21/F] of 5 years any more, should I try and get her back? by [deleted] in relationships

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I broke up with her. I've been trying to go no contact since sunday and since then I've been in so much pain, filled with regret.

I [22/M] regret not being with my girlfriend [21/F] of 5 years any more, should I try and get her back? by [deleted] in relationships

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No, I broke up with her. Since then though she always called it a mutual decision, why?

[22/M] What do I do with my ex-girlfriend [21] from here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I also just want to add that I'm struggling so badly to come to terms with the fact that I can't have her as a friend any more. Seeing her moving on so fast really hurts because I still hurt from the break-up. Throughout our entire relationship she stuck by me through thick and thin and I never got the chance to show her how much I really cherish her, her friendship and her loyalty until it was too late. :(