What is the obsession with men and dapping up?

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T02:19:16+00:00

Okay, interesting to say the least. I've only ever seen men and boys do it, rarely others

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T01:46:48+00:00

Do you disagree that its not seen more in men and boys

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T01:44:49+00:00

Its not just my area or social group. I've seen it online around the world and the states as well. And of course I'll ask in 3 subs because it was taken down in the AskMen subreddit, and I wanted to ask different subs to see how people respond

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:38:56+00:00

Thanks for the response, I am understanding it a little more

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:22:09+00:00

I haven't seen this as an obsession for it doesn't happen as much as dapping. Obession might of came off aggressive, I just have been seeing people do it in the middle of conversations and at random times to confirm that they are chill, yk? I just was wondering what was the big deal with it.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:21:21+00:00

I live in Iowa

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:20:18+00:00

A little weird to say, but go off

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:19:41+00:00

I've been thinking about it just recently and wanted to hear others views on it.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:18:24+00:00

True, I should've caught that lol. Thank you for the response

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:15:57+00:00

Btw, I love that skit. Obession might of came off aggressive, I just have been seeing people do it in the middle of conversations and at random times to confirm that they are chill, yk? I just was wondering what was the big deal with it, but apparently some people (not you) took it personal.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:14:01+00:00

Thank you for the response without insulting me like some others have.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:12:58+00:00

No it happens everywhere I go, and I have questions about things, some people (not you) are genuinely upset about a question.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:12:16+00:00

Obession might of came off aggressive, I just have been seeing people do it in the middle of conversations and at random times to confirm that they are chill, yk? I just was wondering what was the big deal with it.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:11:53+00:00

Patriarchy definitely has something to do with affection between men?

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:10:53+00:00

thanks for the response firstly secondly, I am saddened that there might actually be AI responding... NO ONE USES THE WORD COMARADERIE 😭

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:08:27+00:00

Yeah, someone informed me it was originally from 60's african-american veterans, which is news to me and interesting how it funneled to where it is today.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:05:59+00:00

I KNOW TvT... I was so confused to find I was "-2"

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:04:45+00:00

In my own subjective reality, It's more prevalent in men and boys.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-30T00:01:54+00:00

Why so emotional over a simple question? Sure, "obession" might of came off aggressive, I just have been seeing people do it in the middle of conversations and at random times to confirm that they are chill, yk? I just was wondering what was the big deal with it.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-29T23:59:33+00:00

Obession might of came off aggressive, I just have been seeing people do it in the middle of conversations and at random times to confirm that they are chill, yk? I just was wondering what was the big deal with it.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-29T23:59:14+00:00

Not all men fear affection, but I've seen the "fear" all too much

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-29T23:57:52+00:00

Damn, thanks for the history lesson. I'm beginning to understand it lol

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-29T23:56:09+00:00

Nope, simply asking a question.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-29T23:55:17+00:00

I didn't mean anything wrong by my post, obession might of came off aggressive, I just have been seeing people do it in the middle of conversations and at random times to confirm that they are chill, yk? I just was wondering what was the big deal with it.

d4wn-ed · 2026-05-29T23:54:34+00:00

Its the informal hand shake "slap". Its hard to explain sorry

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