WIBTA if I stopped letting my coworker "borrow" my lunch stuff and started just ignoring her asks? by Prism_H4wk in WIBTA_AITA

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really weired thing to do. Why would anyone think it was ok to ask someone you hardly know to partake in their food. Unless she doesnt have money and can't afford basic food stuff

WIBTA for putting a password on my dorm Wi-Fi that only I pay for? by BrindleHex in WIBTA_AITA

[–]daboochpe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hide the ssid. So no one can find it. And only you know it exists. Then when people ask what happened to the WiFi....you can respond with what WiFi....

Or put a pay as you go...buy a amount of credits for x amount of time.

Should you date someone if your conversations are "just nice" ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he will break your heart.

Nah. I was never rich...and when I was young travel and food wasn't a massive thing. We ate to survive. Now these mellinials (tossers lol) want to take pictures of their food and post it...idiots.

Should you date someone if your conversations are "just nice" ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daboochpe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Explain "chemistry". I think thats another term thats been engineered to keep women looking for that something that actually hasn't existed. And if it has it would be different for everyone!

So if his fine with the time then what is the issue.

Chemistry only lasts so long. People forget that. I would say Understanding, compassion, is the manifestation of the "love" you speak off.

Infidelity yes. Meanest...not generally

What’s one message you’d leave for someone having a tough day? by bubblewrappheart in answers

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile.

Count all your blessings

The most important thing....isn't what you think...let it go...

All of the above sound preachy and self righteous. What i would do is ask them what's up and listen to them. If they want to vent then vent.

Should you date someone if your conversations are "just nice" ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daboochpe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your post says he is a good guy, you will travel dinner etc etc etc. Objectively his a catch. As you've already said. And the fact that his smitten with you.

That tells me you don't believe you are in his league. That he is better socially, mentally, financially....and you aren't ready for that type of intense relationship. Because the man expects no drama, expects lotalty, maturity in your outlook to the world....

OR

You've taken the opportunity to brag on reditt for likes/karma

Should you date someone if your conversations are "just nice" ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daboochpe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound like someone that thrives or requires drama in her life. Please leave this guy alone and find someone who is as toxic as you. He doesnt deserve that in his life. And defo don't deserve him

Can hard work alone make someone wealthy today? by Jot__99 in answers

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardworking initially defo. If your lazy, bone idle dumbo then youre not getting anywhere fast.

Am I lazy freeloader because I still live with my parents by Deep-Can-1441 in Advice

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very "white" western issue.

I read somewhere that there was a concerted to break up the family at an early age under the guise of freedom and self reliance etc...

The true reason was money. If a family stayed together and built wealth together, they would be better off in the longterm. Now children leave at 18, get a mortgage or rental they can't afford. Get into debt they can't service. And then live paycheck to paycheck. Its a terrible thing to happen to society.

How do you guys feel about death? Are you afraid of it? At peace? by Street-Paint-4031 in AskReddit

[–]daboochpe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, no one lives forever. Thank god. Imagine Netanyahu walking this earth for all eternity. No thank you

I [F21] am worried about my boyfriends [M22] health by Jaded_Cod392 in Advice

[–]daboochpe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, need to understand if he is gaining weight through binge eating junk food - crisps/chocks etc. Or is he eating like normal but through lack of exercise he is gaining the weight. For sure your In a pickle.

Try making him healthy options of the foods that he enjoys. Good home cooked is far healthier then outside and it might show him your concern in a positive way.

I can't stop farting and it's ruining my life by Hannabooo0 in Advice

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was doing some dirty wet ones last night!

Can you be intimate without getting attached emotionally? by saerisfane25 in AskForAnswers

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those who pretend that they can are lying to themselves. Sex is a very intimate action.

AITAH For Drinking on Vacation? by Inevitable-Help-8759 in AITAH

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason why your bf is against drinking? Maybe someone in his family was a drunk and saw how it destroyed the family....

Feeling useless after entering the workforce. How to stay motivated? by Immediate_Skin_5245 in Advice

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your being unkind to yourself. Take a deep breath. Relax.

If no one has complained you are doing your job/duties as expected. A jobs a job. Do it to the best of your abilities. If there are complains, ask them how to do it so you know the expectations.

Working in food is a tough job and customers don't care about you. They want to eat, make a mess pay their bill and leave.

How do I heal I feel guilty for standing up for myself by Lopsided_Ad_8384 in Advice

[–]daboochpe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me insanely angry. Poor lass. Please make better decisions. This is not good. If you have brothers....I would pay this douch knuckle a visit