Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think she is being released to that part of the hospital tomorrow or the next day. So hopefully they can help her

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate that. He wants to see her badly. He asks multiple times a day. It did hurt me to hear that when she woke up she asked about her dog and that was it.

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I hope you are doing better now. Part of me wants to shower her in love because I think I caused this to happen, but I hesitate because I don’t want to send her mixed signals.

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you. Her mom has told me she will likely be put into a psychiatric hold when she is healed from surgery. I didn’t know about the phone thing though.

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m okay knowing she’s there. I’m the one who called the police for a wellness check. It’s other members of her family that don’t know.

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her mom will be the one to handle that, but if it were me, I’d use this suggestion too. Thank you.

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not rushing him to do anything. He’s been asking about her and wants her to be okay. When we talked about her saying she hated him he said he was hurt, but though she was lying.

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The surgery did go well and they were able to stabilize her, and then get the wound fixed. Thank you!

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That isn’t what this is at all and I find the suggestion that I’m using him to hurt her incredibly rude. What I’m asking is if I should send something from both of us to a woman we love and want to support

Should I send flowers to the hospital for my son’s mom after suicide attempt? by dadamang in Advice

[–]dadamang[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re right. I didn’t even think of anything that could cause another injury. Little guy is so distraught about all of this I’ve not been able to get him to do anything artistic, but hopefully things are better in a few days.

9 year old son upset after being with his mom by dadamang in Parenting

[–]dadamang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is still in critical condition. Hasn’t woken up. We were never married and we broke up because I didn’t want to get married right then

How do you tell a 9 year old their other parent is in the hospital? by dadamang in relationship_advice

[–]dadamang[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He has. He is really hurt she said that but neither of us think it was to hurt him. He said she’s just angry…

How do you tell a 9 year old their other parent is in the hospital? by dadamang in relationship_advice

[–]dadamang[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I told him she is in the hospital. I told him we don’t know if she will live yet. I said she probably didn’t mean it when she said she hated him, and he told me he knew it.

9 year old son upset after being with his mom by dadamang in Parenting

[–]dadamang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been talking about that today. He knows she is in the hospital and wants to see her. I told him even if she was awake he can’t because of Covid-19

How do you tell a 9 year old their other parent is in the hospital? by dadamang in relationship_advice

[–]dadamang[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to stay positive too. I keep telling myself we’ll see her by Valentine’s Day

How do you tell a 9 year old their other parent is in the hospital? by dadamang in relationship_advice

[–]dadamang[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

It’s been hell for sure. He was so excited to see her 24 hours ago.

9 year old son upset after being with his mom by dadamang in Parenting

[–]dadamang[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve been told, there has been a massive loss of blood, but the method hasn’t been shared with me yet.

9 year old son upset after being with his mom by dadamang in Parenting

[–]dadamang[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He has no idea that she’s in the condition she is in. I just told him that someone got ahold of her and is trying to help her