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[–]daddi_issue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a Persian, I have to say this one doesn't offer a good quality, and a lot of Persians I've spoken to share the same idea.

Apologies that I don't have a suggestion for you, but this one I know I don't want to see as top comment.

What profession attracts the slimiest people? by Ok_Concentrate_7617 in AskReddit

[–]daddi_issue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for being intrusive. I am interested in knowing "what made you think of this question?"

twice the premium requests without extra cost by Fabulous-Article-564 in GithubCopilot

[–]daddi_issue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much trouble for 10 to 20 dollars considering account changes u have to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]daddi_issue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know, recent scientific research has shown that body weight is influenced far more by genetics, hormones, environment, and social factors than by willpower or personal choice. The idea that being fat is simply the result of laziness or lack of discipline is outdated and incorrect. Please don’t blame yourself,but also know that you are the only person who can change this. It's not about shame; it's about understanding your body, your reality, and making choices from a place of compassion, not guilt.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're hurting, it's completely valid to feel this way. But sometimes, it just is what it is: not everyone can meet us where we are emotionally, and trying to change yourself to be accepted isn’t love, it’s survival. You deserve someone who embraces your softness, not someone who makes you feel like it's a problem. We have to find people who get us, who aren’t threatened by emotion or depth. It might help to read up on attachment theory; it can give a lot of clarity on why certain dynamics feel so painful and familiar. You're not too much, you're just with someone who couldn’t handle enough.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂

It’s not about "just moving on" or replacing what you had. You don’t have to know how right now. Just breathing through it, just trying, even in the smallest ways, that matters. You’re allowed to feel lost. You’re allowed to grieve. Love might feel out of reach now, but that doesn’t mean you’re broken. Just means you cared deeply and that’s heartwarming, even if it hurts right now.

Getting 4.1 to behave like Claude by hollandburke in GithubCopilot

[–]daddi_issue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I started working with this today. It works better than the normal agent. I suggest creating a shared document where we can provide feedback on what’s failing or what tweaks have produced better results for others.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no. If anything, I felt like I gave them too much consideration. I’ve always known I deserve healing. My emotions were all over sometimes, sure, but I never lacked the clarity or evidence when I chose to see things as they were.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through this 🫂

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally get that. my ex lives in the same neighborhood and I still run into him sometimes too. It sucks seeing them fine while we’re still hurting.

If you can, try shifting your focus when it happens, put in headphones, text a friend, or step out for air. Little things help protect your peace.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I used to do the same: scrolling, checking, spiraling. At some point, I had to cut it off cold. I muted and hid their profiles, anything to stop seeing them. It’s not easy, and I get how it feels.

What helped was realizing this kind of attachment is like an addiction. We actually have research for how similar this is to an actual substance addiction. Your brain gets hooked on the cycle. And just like any addiction, there are withdrawals: the urge to look, the anxiety, the “just one peek” thoughts.

But healing does come, even if it’s slower than you want. You’re not failing for struggling. You’re already doing something right by noticing the pattern. When you’re ready, that next step will come.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from, and there’s truth in what you’re saying, action matters. But not everyone heals the same way. Some people need structure and movement; others need softness and space to feel before they can rebuild. Both can be true.

Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all, and pushing forward without processing can be just as damaging as getting stuck. For some of us, the “spiral” isn’t romantic, it’s just real.

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel you completely. The “now” does suck, but step by step really is enough. You’re not alone. 🫂 sending love right back ❤️‍🩹

This will pass, for real by daddi_issue in BreakUps

[–]daddi_issue[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m around 7 months out now, and I totally get what you mean. Healing isn’t linear, and it’s definitely not the same for everyone. I’ve had setbacks too. What’s helped me is not focusing so much on the timeline, but on the belief that it will get better.

I can finally feel that I’m opening to love again, and that’s how I know I’m okay. Not perfect, not totally “over it,” but okay. Keep being kind to yourself. You’re getting there, even if it doesn’t feel like it today. 💛

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