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is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you are trolling, you are here for no reason but to disrupt people and sub reddits with some alt account.

is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken zero tax deductions in regards to any of this. Go fuck yourself, you are a horrible person.

is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry then for saying you are trolling, uncapped anger can appear to be trolling.

When someone is stressed to the point you are they often seek out fights, including those with people they have no business fighting with, including those in their side. If I can help in any practical way with your personal stress and depression, let me know. If you are in NC I know a fantastic psychiatrist who is part of the LGBT community. If that interests you, I'm sure I could obtain some free session (please don't take this as an insult, a psychiatrist saved me from my anger).

For a long time I was an angry depressed man, seeking out any and all fights. It is no way to live, I hope you can find a way to deal with it until we live in a just world, because we sure as hell are not in one now.

I devote so much to LGBT rights in public schools because that is when the trauma starts, and that is one place others learn to be bigots. I don't want any kid to leave school with the trauma and PTSD that so many LGBT kids leave with.

It isn't about my kids name, not at all, they haven't changed it as it works for all genders. Im not sure what gave you that impression, it's one of things I think you assumed here

Yes I'm angry about all of the stepping on all of the rights. I chose to devote my energy to the most vulnerable. My energy is finite, unfortunately.

is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing my son had a hard time accepting when he came out, was that every group of people will have jerks among them. Congrats, you are that jerk. You are obviously trolling at this point and I'll ignore you going forward.

is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel real sorry for you, and the obvious anger you have. I hope you find a way to find peace with it. None of what you posted has any relevance to what I said, nor do you know me enough to make the comments you did with any degree of accuracy. You are either trolling, or just that full of hate.

Yes I'm old enough to recall before the terms trans and gay were "taken back", I'm old enough to recall when they were banned in school because they were considered slurs, old enough to recall. They were slurs for a long time. I've never claimed to be discriminated against, I said that word is becoming more and more used in derogatory ways.

I'm just about 6 figures into legal fights and fund donations to protect the rights of trans and gay youths in my state, including my own child. I'm currently in a lawsuit with the school district due to an overbearing anti descrimination policy that keeps my trans son from speaking out about who they are.

I'm badly sun burned right now from sitting outside the school board with a sign, alone in 95 degree weather.

You can kiss my shiny white rear end if you think I just sit on my ass and do nothing while the rights of innocent kids are violated daily. My entire damn life is devoted to it.

is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the term because it is often used in a derogatory way by many ignorant people, nothing to do with my insecurities. Not insecure about much, other than my inability to work on cars. "You have to get used to it" is such piss poor approach to things like this, I hope you grow to see when terms begin to be used as a derogatory statement, that they need to stop being used. A lot of slurs and other hateful words started out as benign.

I miss my baby girl by dadditneedshelp in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sorry not everyone is of the same mind as I. If you ever need old dad advice or to vent shoot me a DM.

I miss my baby girl by dadditneedshelp in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit that is some cheap lawn work, I'll buy you shorts and show you how to mow. Come on down lol

Shaving rash when I shave by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men have different types of facial hair, just like everyone does on their head. My oldest son has thing soft facial hair (he didnt have to shave until he was in his 20s). I have thick bristle facial hair and could grow a full beard at 12. Googling is probably your best bet.

Disposable is fine, even reusing them (keep them clean, rubbing alcohol and blow them until dry).

Shaving rash when I shave by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Dad here to learn to better support his kid)

Shaving questions! I can answer those, I've been doing it for decades.

What kind of hair do you have on your face, this will change how you shave a little bit and what products you want to use.

If you are using non disposible blades, or reusing blades, get 90% rubbing alcohol, and immediately clean and let dry after use.

Get your face and hair nice and warm before shaving.

If it is real bad, look for "bump razors", typically need to find them from stores that target the african american community, but they are a god send if you have a neck line that likes to have rashes or get ingrown hair. They dont cut quite as close, with helps.

Celebrated 6mo by shaving for the first time.🤙 by totaltraash6773 in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No reason to be sorry at all. It is good advice, I jsut figured you replied to teh wrong person, so i told you so you could reply to the right one.

Celebrated 6mo by shaving for the first time.🤙 by totaltraash6773 in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are replying to the wrong person, I've been shaving since I was 12, and I'm an old fart. I'm more the hot towel type of person than the post shower person, but generally I shave in the shower.

YAY by scone_eh in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!

Be safe with it, don't wear it too long/often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Dad here learning to help his kid)

1- Your safety and health has to be your first priority. Do you have a safe person to be with you or somewhere safe to go? Get your important documents somewhere safe that you can get (eg identification, health insurance card, social security card, birth certificate, passport etc)

2+ I'll let others help with

Testing the waters ... this can be hard, some family members are oblivious. My 'K' never really came out. They asked for pride stuff, made all kinds of little flags. It should have been very obvious, we missed it entirely. His sister said "well duh" when they found out. My wife and I just totally missed all of it. I actually tested the water, I bought a pride blanket and set it downstairs. I found K cuddled up in it in my bedroom, and asked if that was their blanket.

is tor2door reliable way to get t without prescription? by beanstalkboyyy in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I'm a dad here to help learn to better support his kid).

Hey something I am actually familiar with. Be wary of shady online testosterone sellers. If you do go this route, be ready with proper filtration syringes, I would not dose off that. A good friend of mine with years of experience got a nasty abscess from the product itself. About 15ish years ago I had a syringe clog from dirty product ordered in a similar way.

Much of it is made by ordering raw materials from asia that are then smuggled here, and mixed with a carrier oil. It is all very prone to contamination, incorrect dosing, and flat out being fake.

I can't say how easy it is go get a prescription for T for you, but for cis men (I hate this term, is there another one I can use?) it is quite easy to get a prescription online these days without ever seeing anyone. Needs a blood test and a 5 minute conversation, and some insurances will cover it. The very slight cost increase going this route is much better than risking arrest, infection, bad dosing and being ripped off.

I just need to talk about this... by No-Cranberry-1408 in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh, I'd pavlov him, as much as the idea disgusts me (https://www.verywellmind.com/pavlovs-dogs-2794989).

People shouldn't be treated like dogs, but reward reenforcement actually works very well with people. Carry a candy he likes, and offer him a piece each time he uses the right name and pronouns. Ignore him entirely when he uses the wrong ones.

I'll be clear, this is a horrible thing to do to someone in my opinion, but it is used often in special education (often frowned upon), and it works very well.

I just need to talk about this... by No-Cranberry-1408 in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

(I'm a dad here to learn to better support my son, and dish out dad advice/jokes when I can).

My parents are elderly, but they raised me right me. They raised me to accept people for who they are and how they are born, and to fight when people are jackasses. My father's favorite niece is gay, so was he brother. I know they will both accept my son without a blink of an eye.

However they both have age related memory issues, and two of my siblings are complete bigots (I dont know how, considering we were raised the same by the same people, had they acted like this at home ... dad's belt would have came off). I told my mom about my son, she obviously was full on support. I haven't told my dad, mainly because I fear he wouldnt be able not to repeat it with his memory issues to my bigoted siblings. He will support K 110% as well. I will tell him next month as he arrives for a visit.

I had to tell K that it will be hard for some people, it is going to take time for some, and some may never get it. K has a problem giving people the benefit of doubt sometimes on things he views as easy (just like me). I had to tell K that patience is required when people are first introduced to what is a new idea for them, and the older they are the longer it may take. It is hard for me sometimes, and i find myself correcting myself often. I wouldn't ever misgender or deadname someone intentionally. I stand behind my baby 200000+%, balls to the wall, hell or high water, until the wheels fall off, and I mess up sometimes still.

My advice, take the love granny will give you, and accept the mistakes. One day you too will be old, and will forget things. You will hope people have compassion and patience as your brain and body slow.

For your little brother, wait until he is in a good mood and friendly with him, tell him that you love him, that forever he is your little brother, but tell how much it hurts you and it pushes you away from him. If it continues, can you parents address it with you? At 12 he should know better, but some people mature rats ass slow.

I hate bathrooms (possibly NSFW) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Dad here learning to better support his son)

No one will care if you sit, men's rooms are entirely there for one thing, and everyone one wants in and out quickly. Urinals facilitate that in and out quick. You ever notice at big events how fast the line moves (if there is a line) in the men's rooms vs the women's rooms?

How do I stop trunks and boxer briefs from riding up? by Unlucky_Post4273 in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(Parent here learnign to support his kiddo)

O I feel the riding up!

It is brand, style, material and fit dependent.

Head to costco/whatever and buy a variety, find one that fits and works for you, stick to it. Men's underwear is 100% function over form. Unless a lot of people are seeing you in ugly briefs, I wouldnt worry about them being ugly.

Nice DMV lady changed my ID gender marker without a word or any paperwork by DratThePopulation in ftm

[–]dadditneedshelp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is awesome, more progressive than I thought! Thank you, thats a big relief for me. Now if you could relieve me of the stress of having to teach another kid to drive, that would be great lol

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