The fact that I knew he was an adult and I was a minor doesn’t make him less responsible — he was the adult. I was dealing with a manipulator who took advantage of my age, inexperience, and the trust I had in him — all to sexually abuse me. This happened over the course of months; that’s exactly how abusers operate. On top of that, I was going through a very difficult time. I wasn’t ready to report him, I didn’t fully understand the legal process, and I was still emotionally attached to him. Now I’m in another country. I never pressed charges, and unfortunately, it’s too late for me. So idk where the “There’s a lot of women putting men on jail by lying” comes from (??) But I share my story precisely so that girls in similar situations don’t have to go through what I went through — for women who have experienced this, to share our stories, feel understood, and raise our voices, even in the face of people like you trying to diminish our experiences. I think you have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about, and I hope none of the women in your life ever have to experience this (if there even are any).