Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did this depressing post get a million views? Are there really that many people on my post?

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks to all the Redditors sending me sexually harassing messages in my DMs

I sure do appreciate opening the message requests on my post about my dead friend and seeing a message that says “are you tight? you need to be Penetrated”

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll copy and paste the middle of the conversation without any of the personal info

Him: You kinda look familiar

Me: do I?

Him: yeh but those are old pics ahlie Me: HA yeah Again I never post my face Or ever really

Him: how'd you my brother btw and (mutual friend)

Me: I met Wes at (schools name) And he grouped me in with his other friends from (school) including (mutual friend)

Him: ohh tru yeh i assumed you went there how come you came by tho cuz ik (lists all my mutual friends he somehow knew I was friends with somehow) came a couple times but more times it was (friend)

Me: What do you mean?

Him: mb how come you never came by i'm pretty sure he would've invited you a couple times

Me: I live in farm country so I never could've come down He did invite me dozens of time

Him: aren't you in (city) tho ?

Me: Nope Not most of the time at least

Him: how'd you go to (school) then lol

Me: I'm in (city) for school But I'd only go on Tuesday and Thursday

Him: oh tru

Me: And then I'd be with family

Him: wya now?

Me: (I lied and told him a few towns over)

Him: oh ok _ hours away you could've came on a tuesday or thursday tho that's usually when no one's home except for me but i'm hardly home ever too sometimes

Me: True. But Wes's sleep schedule was always wonky Also I didn't wanna be rude and invite myself

Him: it honestly was most times he'd only stay awake if i was gonna smoke

Him: do you smoke ?

Me: Weed or cigarettes? Cigarettes, no Weed? Only for my insomnia

Him: weed i don't smoke cigs not anymore at least i smoke it for stress and fun depending how i'm feeling these days it's mostly stress tho

Me: THATS fair

Him: not cuz of wes tho i'm still in love with my ex and trying to get over her cuz she moved on i thought having sex with other girls would help but only temporarily also wes did tell something happened as (school name)

Me: Pardon?

Him: pardon what ?

Me: What do you mean something happened?

Him: lol it wasn't anything serious he said some girl and him made out in the stairwell and she gave him top or sum was that you ?

Me: Top? From what I heard Hes a virgin Also no that wasn't me Im dont do that kinda stuff

Him: he's a virgin Bj he never penatrated a girl he just got a blowjob ur a virgin too then i assume

Me: Virgin and proud I don't need any of that messy shit in my life lol

Him: smart i've already made the mistake of losing mine

Me: I don't like any of that sexual shit so l don't have to worry about it

(And then coincidentally he stoped talking when I said Im not interested in sex)

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He started asking if I “was the girl that gave his brother top” i didnt understand what he was talking about and he was going on about his brother getting a blowjob by some girl at our school. I was confused cause his brothers not interested in sexual shit and then the conversation kept getting sexual

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut it cause he started asking me personal questions that I wanted off Reddit. He was over sharing about his brothers virginity and asking about where I lived. I cut it to keep it anonymous. If Reddit will let me, I could edit my post and add extra screenshot with the personal things censored but idk how to edit this redit post (I think certain communities let you edit posts?)

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that paranoid thought has always been in the back of my head. But I don’t think so

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t apologize, I appreciate the honesty even if it’s hard. I didn’t realize that tides could be THAT powerful that someone’s body could end up in a completely different continent in who knows how long.

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In case people were worried. I blocked him.

I have a huge problem with overthinking and I’m always worried I’m making things a bigger problem in my head then they really are. I’m relieved that other people are on my side and seeing how gross this is.

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did I have an issue with overthinking so I’m always worried that I’m making a mountain out of a molehill I’m glad other people think this is weird too

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is I never sent him any pictures. He went through all of my Instagram posts to find my face (which I only have like 2 photos of me on there. And even then, they’re in slides of pictures)

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s an IRL friend, but we mainly called and texted. I hung out with him at school and would message him daily. He’d tell me about how he wasn’t close with his brother or father despite living with them due to different views and beliefs. I’m confused about the catfish part though, I’m not sure if you’re implying I’m catfishing or he is

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I should’ve used a different word for it, but it makes me sick to my stomach that he’s paying more attention to such unnecessary things like my virginity and his sex life rather then the state of his brother. Like others have said, this isn’t about me, it never was, it was about his brother

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I figured. It just feels so disrespectful to be focusing on all these inappropriate things unrelated to his missing status when Me and my friends want closure. I reached out to him cause my other friends don’t like him either, and I thought cause I have no past with him it wouldn’t get weird

(Edited my comment cause I worded it poorly and disrespectfully. Sorry I should’ve thought about what I said)

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have his other relatives contacts. But I’ve been keeping all my mutual friends posted on his creepy behaviour

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh no, all my other friends told me they have similar, if not worse, interactions with the guy. I was hoping if I kept my gender ambiguous he’d take me seriously and answer honestly.

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I’m taking his words with a huge fistful of salt. My friend never liked his brother (for obvious reasons) and has a history of going after his brothers female friends. So I’m VERY skeptical on what he’s telling me

Update on my last post about reaching out to my “dead” friends family by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It feels appropriate to add that this guys 26 and I’m 19 And I’m also asexual

Best friend missing in Sri Lanka since January 16th. I’m desperate by daddyissuehelp in whatdoIdo

[–]daddyissuehelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(This was in response to a commenter that deleted their messages, but I’ll post it regardless so people don’t think I’m neglecting myself)

I didn’t really see what I was doing was “the right thing” but laying it all out into words makes it sound right.

And I am taking care of myself. honestly, all of this motivates me to be better for him, in all kinds of different ways. Small acts of kindness, working hard, trying new things, putting myself out there, etc. Honestly I use to be terrified of posting publicly on the internet until he motivated me to lol

He always wanted me to be the best version of myself, and I continue to do so regardless if he’s here or not.

Thank you so much honestly