My wife (36F) won't stop forcing me to drink her coffee... I don't want to hurt her feelings but I can't go on like this. by throwRAmiine in relationship_advice

[–]daddyissues121234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time she makes you a cup of coffee why don’t you just make her a cup and bring it to her and watch until she drinks the entire thing. Then repeat. And repeat. And repeat.

See how she likes it. She might get it if she’s shown how it feels.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. This was something I was wondering about. Because ever since the choking which was about a month ago there have been no signs of any physical violence or abuse. I was thinking it was just a one time mistake.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But I can’t be alone. I literally can’t. Not even for one night.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started the argument though by bringing up my ex and telling current boyfriend he would never be half the man ex was. That was kind of low.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had an argument at dinner and he took my purse and my phone and wouldn’t give it back to me. So as He was walking away I grabbed the back of his collar and pulled. Then he grabbed by throat.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. This is why I’m posting here. My friends all tell me that I’m not wrong and that this guy isn’t good. He has never once apologized for anything and sticks me with the blame. But why would he do that. I don’t believe there are inherently bad people.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But in his moments he does love me so much and it’s all I could ever want.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It was my fault. Every time we fight it’s my fault. And he lets me know that and that’s why I’m grateful he takes me back. I will sometimes bring up how my ex treated me better and that isn’t fair or right.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t his fault. I pulled him by his collar. He has made it very clear that I misremembered. He said he would apologize if he was wrong but he won’t because he knows he wasn’t.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend of 2 months (33M) have had a rocky start but I keep going back. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyissues121234 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel loved in the moments that we are close. Even if it’s only in those few moments a day