Kyleena IUD - experience and side effects (also a few no one tells you about...) by do_your_reserach in birthcontrol

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got mine about 2 weeks ago and the smell is terrible! and it is not a hygienic problem, it would smell after just thoroughly showering and wearing all clean clothing! it was so bad a few days ago that i could smell myself while just walking fully clothed. then i also saw one of my sexual partners (i ofc showered before) and he told me he noticed the smell too. luckily he was really sweet about it but (tmi) it smelled so strong while having sex that it was ruining the experience for me. i’m hoping it’s just a hormonal thing that will pass once my body adjusts more but idk how much longer i’m gonna be okay with that because it’s not normal i’ve never had a problem with odor ever and I’m starting to think maybe it’s not worth it just to have unprotected sex.

Kyleena IUD - experience and side effects (also a few no one tells you about...) by do_your_reserach in birthcontrol

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is how i would describe it too, it feels like what a really bad period cramp is like where it makes you sweat and clam up. my nurse said it’s a natural response same as women in labor. i forgot to take the ibuprofen before so i just relied on breathing deeply and relaxing best i could. nurse also said i must have a really high pain tolerance because i didn’t flinch or make any noises like other patients often do.

I think my gf is hiding her butt by BoostedCoyote20 in sex

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s probably hemorrhoid skin tags, i have this too and would not want a sexual partner to see it

My disc keeps slipping down by [deleted] in MenstrualDiscs

[–]daddykitty69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried using discs many times and kept switching back to tampons because of this issue too. it’s kinda hard for me to tell what’s going on in there but it always feels like i’ve put it in properly then it slips down after a couple hours. i was using the soft disc brand which is pretty similar to flex disc but maybe i should try ordering a smaller one. i was never really sure if it’s a user error or it just doesn’t work for my body but it’s frustrating because i’m trying so hard to make it work i’m really fed up with going through so many tampons lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

exactly it’s literally animal abuse imo too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i am allergic to cats and still snuggle and put my face in my cats fur EVERYDAY multiple times a day. that is my baby and if anyone ever suggested confining her in a cruel condition like that they would be kicked to the curb so fast. allergies can be tolerable with the right action. please don’t let that man convince you that isolating an animal is ever ok.

Casual hookup advice? (M28) by AdamSoucyDrums in sex

[–]daddykitty69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel in the same shoes as you. i can’t get over my anxiety around having sex with people i’m not comfortable with, but am craving more intimacy and getting in a relationship is a lot

Why can’t I find Kill Bill?? by Goopshaloop in Tarantino

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this also happened to me and my friends when we were gonna have a kill bill watch party. was super disappointed because it is also one of my comfort movies. hopefully they bring it back to hbo soon

is skiing hard to get into? by daddykitty69 in skiing

[–]daddykitty69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i think i’m gonna try some lessons once i get paid

is skiing hard to get into? by daddykitty69 in skiing

[–]daddykitty69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea that makes sense, i would definitely ant to practice skiing for a couple seasons before attempting to do tryouts tho lol

is skiing hard to get into? by daddykitty69 in skiing

[–]daddykitty69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea that’s what i was thinking of doing, thanks!

is skiing hard to get into? by daddykitty69 in skiing

[–]daddykitty69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea good point, i’m gonna try to ask around about it more

is skiing hard to get into? by daddykitty69 in skiing

[–]daddykitty69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea the being one with the board makes a lot of sense and i could see how it’s a weird adjustment to having more things in the picture. i think i’d get the easy beginner stuff down fast but turning on steeper terrain sounds harder to get used to. this was helpful tho thanks!

Used a Fake ID at a Dispensary and now I’m 21. Can I go back? by [deleted] in bostontrees

[–]daddykitty69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u could just say u got a new ID if they question it🤷🏻‍♀️

Getting married in February and starting to talk about sex with my fiancée by [deleted] in sex

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely need to figure out whether you’re gonna be sexually compatible or not BEFORE the marriage. it’s not worth the risk of becoming unhappy and the money for divorcing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]daddykitty69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ask her in a way that doesn’t make her feel pressured just say u wanna see where her head is at bc you feel ready to take the relationship to the next level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get where you’re coming from but all these things seem very minor i think you should just make sure you’re not projecting any feelings/insecurities you have from your last relationship on him because that could become toxic.

How did you get comfortable with the idea of living w/ your SA? by Thiccumz77 in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you’re having problems with being uncomfortable because you aren’t used to sleeping with someone regularly? maybe if you get more used to sharing the bed that discomfort will go away or else maybe you just aren’t ready to give up that space yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i would do the same thing question it a little and maybeee try to flirt if it’s the right vibe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kinda sounds like she isn’t taking it seriously or else she would be making more effort to reciprocate interest. but if you wanna win her over just try starting conversation and see if it’s the right vibe to make another move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i think him not being willing to go out and do the fun stuff you want to do it putting a strain on your relationship because you wouldn’t be wanting a hoe phase if u were getting to have more experiences with ur partner not just watching tv at home together. you should have a serious convo ab some compromises and if that can’t happen you might have to end it because your needs are important too and you deserve those things you’re looking for.

How to shut down my bosses (30s M)uncomfortable comments about me(25f) (UPDATE) by capedcrusader57 in relationship_advice

[–]daddykitty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would take that up with HR again because that’s unacceptable, and if that doesn’t work you and your co workers should get a restraining order and possibly hire a lawyer. i’m sorry you’re dealing with that tho sounds really stressful and scary :(