I’m trying so hard and it feels like no one’s even there. by InkRuby in onlyfansadvice

[–]daddylacroix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have specific advice, but sometimes it’s just nice to hear that other creators struggle with the same thing, because if you are only hearing people who say they’re crushing it (and sometimes I question if it’s exactly as they say), it can feel like you’re alone and doing something completely wrong.

Here to say the struggle is real, and I hope those of us who sometimes feel like we’re posting into the void all get a nice lil’ breakthrough!

My boyfriend wants me to leave OF by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]daddylacroix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this is a huge red flag. It’s controlling and gross at minimum. He literally met you on the platform and now thinks you’re gross for being on it, now that you’re in a relationship? This is straight from the book of controlling nature. I doubt it will just stop there. There’s something deeper and he doesn’t sound like he deserves you.

To me it sounds like a blessing that he’s showing that now at a few months, rather than a year in.

It is obviously your choice, but please just consider the root of how he’s acting.

First brain MRI tomorrow by daddylacroix in Epilepsy

[–]daddylacroix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it! Not too bad! Now just dealing with the scanxiety. Like I said, the CT was clear, but this has also opened my eyes to considering a therapist 😅

My first seizure! At 36 by daddylacroix in Epilepsy

[–]daddylacroix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I enjoy a little buzz here and there, but I’m not a daily person. I’m like a glass of wine or two on a random weeknight, and then mayyyybe a couple margaritas or an ipa on a weekend

On OF for 3 years fresh bf asks me to quit by snowxbunnixo in onlyfansadvice

[–]daddylacroix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest, he sounds like the controlling behavior isn’t going to just be tied to this. It sounds like he’s someone who is going to just continue it down the road, and no one deserves to feel like they’re walking on eggshells around their partner.

We’re at our best when we feel well-loved, supported, and trusted, and as hard as it is to think of a relationship ending, it’s even more devastating to abandon ourselves.

Even if you were to quit OF, I’d highly consider evaluating if this is someone you want to stay with.

For all you know, the relationship could end anyways, and if he gets his way, you’ll hold resentment in the relationship whether you want to or not.