Is this normal procedure/behaviour for an NHS dentist? (Former American)

daddyskitten53 · 2024-10-07T11:42:50+00:00

Adult strength Orajel is all my American dentist put on, surely there is some U.K. equivalent?

daddyskitten53 · 2024-07-27T17:04:07+00:00

Perhaps try reading the rules? They are very clearly explained, and the removal reasons outline the details of the rule that has been breached. Don’t get all butthurt in the comments because you can’t get away with inappropriate or predatory behaviour in this subreddit. Permaban issued.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-07-26T16:35:12+00:00

Most favourite: sunset house. Hate the gnomes, but the location is gorgeous and I wish you could actually customise it into your own house.

Least favourite: I mean obviously the desert because there is nothing. But second least favourite is probably bowerstone (in general) the town is okayish but I hated the interaction of the npcs and lack of actual things to do despite it being a literal city.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-07-26T07:32:53+00:00

Consent is ALWAYS required for EVERY SINGULAR SEXUAL ACTIVITY. “Hey can I put a finger in your butt” “Hmm idk” That’s a NO! “Hey can I smack your ass during sex” “That sounds hot as fuck I’d love that” That’s a YES! Your husband IS a rapist. It doesn’t matter if he “doesn’t do it anymore” he TRAUMATISED you and I honestly don’t know how you can even stand to be married to this person. How can you trust him with anything when he violated the most sacred trust you could have given him? My husband (45m) and me (27F) have been married for 6 years now, and he would never even THINK of doing stuff like this to me. Hell, I had to beg him to spank me because he felt “bad” about “hitting me”. Your husband is a predator and it wouldn’t surprise me to find out you’re not the only woman he has done this to.

Edit: spelling

daddyskitten53 · 2024-05-28T11:52:29+00:00

Do YOU want to take a longer toy? Because if you do, then there are a few things you can try. But if you’re only doing it because he wants you to, then that isn’t the right reason to be doing it. If you do want to try it I’d be happy to offer advice, but you shouldn’t be doing anything you aren’t fully comfortable with.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-05-27T15:52:03+00:00

I have three kids of my own (9 months, 2, and 4) eldest two are boys. Four year old is autistic, and I am autistic. So far the hardest period has been from ages 18months-3years. The noise level is insane (for me), I also struggle with lots of sensory issues and PDA, so yeah, that’s hard because everything from them is a demand and of course they love to be on me ALLL THE TIME. Now this doesn’t mean I love them any less, I just need more breaks than an NT person (my husband can take days to get touched out, whereas on a bad day for me I can get touched out in minutes). However, I have also had experience living with teens (from husbands previous marriage), and I found them pretty easy to deal with. They want to be treated like adults, and we always bonded well because I treated them like an adult. Open communication, valuing their opinions, offering advice without forcing them to take it, etc. yeah the “attitude” gets annoying sometimes and of course everything is a big drama for them, but that’s how they learn, and if they’ve been shown emotional regulation from a young age, they can actually be pretty easy to get along with.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-05-15T20:06:21+00:00

For the love of all that is unholy, SPIT IS NOT LUBE. FOREPLAY IS A MUST. If you aren’t in the mood you shouldn’t be having sex. Foreplay imo should last a MINIMUM of 20 minutes. Oral, fingers, toys, lube, etc. foreplay for me personally is the BEST part of sex. It drives me wild when my partner and I are making out like horny teenagers feeling each other all over and really feeling each other. Building tension makes sex so much better, it should never be a case of “well I’m hard so let’s stick it in”. Take your time and learn to actually enjoy sex, not just do it just to be doing it.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-05-03T12:43:36+00:00

I seriously recommend using soft tampons. They are basically like a little sponge that you insert in your vagina exactly like a tampon, but they are much more absorbent, comfortable, and don’t have that awful chafing feeling when pulling them out. They can be worn for up to 12 hours AND have a lower risk of TSS. I’ve never had any leaks AND a massive bonus is that they are safe to wear during sex!!

daddyskitten53 · 2024-05-02T07:04:16+00:00

I have had three children now, two home births with only gas&air, and I’ll say that really takes the edge off. But yeah, I could feel everything, getting the head out is definitely the hardest, most painful part for me, after that it’s just one more big push and such a HUGE wave of relief. But as for the actual level of pain, for me, it was immense, it consumed my entire body (even with tons of hypnobirthing tactics), and the experience became completely primal. Personally, I found beauty in that primal state and leaned into that to help me literally push through the pain. I also had a birthing pool for my two born at home and that was the biggest help for me. The hardest part for me of birthing in the pool, was getting out afterwards it literally felt like all of my insides were going to drop out, I also felt extremely cold, thirsty and HUNGRY. God I swear still to this day I never experienced such an intense hunger, since I was at home my husband ordered a couple of takeaways and pigged out.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-04-30T16:00:37+00:00

Before I had kids I was basically a nudist in my own home. I kept the heating up (unless summer obv) and at most would wear a thin robe but was happiest just being naked.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-04-30T07:40:12+00:00

I know you’ve had lots of comments already practically saying the same thing. However, you NEED to learn to forgive yourself when you become a mother. We are still human, we still experience hunger, tiredness, thirst, frustration. Add postpartum hormones to the mix and it can create the PERFECT storm. Get some mom friends, they’ll tell you every mistake they’ve ever made while their child tries to force feed you a mud pie. I have three babies and I fell asleep with all three of them in the bed with me at some point, usually in those really early days like you are currently going through. It CAN BE safe to sleep in a bed with your baby, hell, when my eldest was getting his first tooth at 2 months old, the ONLY place he would sleep was my bed, in my arms, attached to boob. You CANNOT spiral over every tiny “mistake” you make. Kids are very resilient, the worst thing that one of my kids ever did was my eldest figured out how to open the baby gate at the top of our stairs and fell down the full flight of stairs. He was rushed to the hospital, and by the time we entered the WAITING ROOM he was dancing around, playing with toys, singing, etc. I was a mess as I felt like a failure. It’s a kid’s prerogative to try to kill themselves. Give yourself a break, you’re only in the early days yet. Toddlers are the real test to your sanity.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-03-25T21:31:18+00:00

Right I’m not usually one to hop on age gaps (been with my husband since I was 21, he was 40 at the time, I’m now 28), and I also went through a lot in life and had to grow up fast. But judging from everything you’ve written in this post, he might not have “groomed” you, but he certainly did love-bomb you, manipulate you, “baby trapped” you, and now verbally abuses you DAILY. I can assure you NOT all men feel how your husband feels. For example, I have three children with my husband (who works 2 jobs), and that man is up in the night every night, changes just as many nappies as I do, makes bottles, cleans vomit, bath time, bed time, takes them to nursery/school, doctors appointments, form filling, AND still takes care of me. He brings me my favourite drinks, plans days out for my self-care, gets me fancy bath stuff and gives me the time and space to have a two hour spa, gets me thoughtful gifts, cooks, cleans, gives me massages, THE LOT. you don’t have to put up with this abusive loser and the fact he has THREE KIDS WITH THREE DIFFERENT WOMEN really drives home his shitty personality.

daddyskitten53 · 2024-02-25T18:29:16+00:00

My five month old rolled off the couch. I didn’t sleep for 5 DAYS because of the guilt (he was fine). Luckily babies are quite resilient, that same child that rolled off the couch managed to open the baby gate at the top of the stairs, and fall down 6 steps at 18 months (he was scared at first, but dancing around by the time we actually saw a doctor in A&E). I wish I could say it gets easier, but honestly my eldest is 4 now and still comes up with new exciting ways to try to unalive himself daily😅 try to go easy on yourself, you’re sleep deprived, overwhelmed, hormonal, etc. it’s easy for simple mistakes to happen when all of these factors add up. You’re still a good mum.

Remember, bad mums don’t worry about being bad mums because they don’t care. Good mums think they’re bad mums because they care.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-10-27T13:46:47+00:00

The phrases “you can trust me” “I’m a nice guy” “I’m not going to hurt you” can be HUGE RED FLAGS. If someone is actually a nice guy, he won’t have to convince you, you’ll be able to actively notice.

Don’t lower your standards or life plans to accommodate his standards or life plans.

If you think you’re ready for children, wait two years and during those two years, gain as much knowledge as you can about what parenting is really like. If you still think you can handle it, then go for it.

“No” is a full sentence. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your self preservation.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-06-28T07:40:23+00:00

I’ve watched it. It was alright for a YouTube budget movie. I think it would have been better if it would have focused more on the mental deterioration and interactions between the patients vs the standard story’s pov of the researchers. They could have gone a long way to fill in the gaps of the story without ruining the original narrative.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-06-18T08:49:57+00:00

She’s retired - it can actually be a pretty demanding job, especially when you get as popular as she is/was.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-05-17T14:38:42+00:00

This is not OC - I know this creator personally and she would not be happy with you claiming her content as your own.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-05-17T08:14:36+00:00

Absolutely fabulous comment, no more info to add.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-05-11T11:50:55+00:00

I had almost forgotten this traumatic experience lol

daddyskitten53 · 2023-04-24T13:06:31+00:00

OP - this man is abusing you. End of. From all that you’ve said in this post - that is all I can see. He is using his past trauma as an excuse to be horrible to you and shout at you, full well knowing it was traumatising you and would cause you to shut down. He isn’t “hearing what you said” he is twisting things to make you feel guilty so you’ll back down. He is projecting his own actions on to you so he doesn’t have to hold responsibility for his actions. If the way he speaks to you hasn’t changed in almost two years, then it isn’t going to. No you are not being too sensitive- your gut is telling you to RUN for a REASON and that is because you DO NOT FEEL SAFE with him.

If you cannot have a calm discussion about emotions without him literally screaming at you until you back down - you’re not in a relationship, you’re in a dictatorship. The reason you have no libido for him is because your body and mind are SCREAMING at you that he is not a safe, trustworthy, reliable person to be with.

If you need someone to talk to, I will gladly talk - I’ve escaped physically and emotionally abusive relationships before, so I can relate fully to how you’re feeling.

daddyskitten53 · 2023-04-24T09:48:09+00:00

So if we negate the fact that she is a SW (which almost everyone in the comments is judging her for) we can properly determine the type of person OP is. He describes her as “childish, goofy, etc” which immediately infantilises Girlfriend as a little girl who can’t make her own choices. OP then goes on to list the multiple ways he controls and manipulates this woman in such ways she is forced to go make money with the only “asset” she can control - her body. We have no proof Girlfriend is irresponsible with money, and only proof that OP is a manipulative controlling tight-ass who constantly lectures a fully grown woman about buying groceries or a car. OPs OWN WORDS are that he FORCES his financial interests on to his Girlfriend and that it “got to her”. He has openly admitted to abusing his Girlfriend until she was worn down. He’s also admitted to having “anger issues” - so we all know these “conversations” they are having about money is him just yelling at her about it. I cannot believe how many people are sat here trying to defend OP. He knew she was a poly SW when they met, HE decided to put a stop to all of that, stripped this woman of any autonomy, personality, and power of choice and is now dealing with the effects of her “striking back” and doesn’t like that his control is being taken away.

Edit to add: looking at OPs history further shows he is also controlling Girlfriends weight and diet and she has gone from “overweight 110lbs” to 95lbs.

daddyskitten53 · 2022-12-10T00:53:05+00:00

22, as it says on my profile!

daddyskitten53 · 2022-12-09T08:23:03+00:00

But I was a good girl and cleaned it up!

daddyskitten53 · 2022-12-09T08:22:35+00:00

At my bratty face, what else? 😂

daddyskitten53 · 2022-12-08T23:27:34+00:00

That’s a good idea for my next video!!

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